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  • Birthday 03/27/1953

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    Kansas
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  1. We got very lucky, I think, that we went to our first club, first experience in the Lifestyle and it was pool night outdoors and lots of friendly couples to have conversations with. Even though there was more hard core stuff going on in different rooms elsewhere, for the most part, the experience was about listening to other couples school us in how to be safe and choosy. We could open up with each other about our sexuality with other non-judgemental people. The result of the evening wasn't sex with others just randomly, which is what I thought the Lifestyle was about - and something that turned me off about even considering it. What it was about for us was opening up each of us individually and as a couple about that wonderful sexuality we both have. And - OHMIGOD - we've been naked in our house for four days straight talking and my husband pretty much has a running hard on and we have had sex at least three times a day. I never knew the extent of how much or how often he wanted to have sex until now. At the club, after a couple of hours, I decided to just go for it and strip down to get in the pool and soon a crazy volleyball game ensued with several balls in the air and people in and out of the pool laughing and just having this incredibly joyful time - just existing and being free. Really, truly a wonderful experience that helped us set our boundaries personally since we were fortunate enough to have conversations with three couples who put us at ease about being picky and choosy and safety first. My husband said he is having such a fantastic time being able to walk nude around the house and stroke himself if he wants to - and I'm responding so much to his happiness and joy...truly, my heart is full of love for him.
  2. Yes, it's all the same. We've just made what may be a deal-breaker and unpopular decision to not perform oral sex on others. There's not a safe enough way to do this and still keep it fun and pleasant. This is not to pass judgement on others who make a different decision - but safe sex pretty much leads. I'm, personally, not willing to live with the pressure of worrying about STIs/STDs.
  3. My husband is the only one who gets to lick my pussy so we do what is best for us. I shaved for a couple of years that I will never get back. It was a huge hassle to me. It was itchy, sweaty and for the amount of sex we like to have, the area got irritated more easily. I like having that cushion - and I freakin' LOVE his pubic hair - it's beautiful. It's not on his cock, for heaven's sake. But his hair gives me something to stroke and gently pull, which drives him crazy. LOL As for my husband, he doesn't care if it's shaved or not - he's passionately, wildly fucking every day and that's just the two of us. If someone else gets pulled into it, I doubt he's going to complain about that either.
  4. Well, she's done it and she's happy and it's her body. I think there might be some need for the procedure for some women who feel that the parts are so large/wide/long that they are uncomfortable just walking around and existing. That's probably what the procedure was designed for. But...internet and porn being what it is, women have been exposed to pictures of what "ideal" pussies are supposed to look at...yet another thing to feel self-conscious about. I'm like what one poster said - I like my parts...there's stuff to suck on and play with and my partner loves all of it - and cums like a racehorse whenever we have sex BECAUSE he's fucking a lively partner who digs the hell out of him. Bottom line - at some point, the person or people worth having sex with are the people you connect with as a human being, not as a sex object.
  5. I shaved for about 2 years. I had conflicted feelings about it. I'm trying to be my free and happy self and didn't feel that shaving my pubs for the benefit of someone else's comfort was accomplishing that. Trimming is okay - but I need some cushion and protection down there. As we approached the idea of swinging, my husband for the first time mentioned that maybe he should trim, etc. I freakin' love his hair. It's beautiful. One of the things that I realized was going to concern me with swinging was if being natural was going to be a deal-breaker. It may for some people and not others. It's certainly not very inviting to think that others in a club would be gagging over "Oh, God, I just saw BUSH!" That would be sad because we are looking for open-minded, accepting and free-spirited people. There's enough judgement in the world.
  6. I've had many conversations with my husband about his lifetime of partners and he has never expressed any kind of aversion to any body type. One partner with pretty much just nipples, he said he just loved their erectness and it was just as much of a turn on...she also had other turn ons about her...slim, soft legs, etc.
  7. We are not interested in any kind of unsheathed play in the genital area because YES, you absolutely CAN get all of the nasty STIs from oral. Google it. It's disappointing, perhaps, but, for us, it's just not worth the risk. We reserve oral for ourselves only. Hand play is wonderful so it's not depriving - to us - to set a redline at not doing oral when playing with others. Condom oral - from the female standpoint - is like sucking a balloon. Using a dam just removes so much of the play pleasure that unless somebody really wants to go to all the effort to learn how to work with it, it's a non-starter. That doesn't mean there isn't plenty of other fun.
  8. STI's can definitely be transmitted via oral sex. Oral sex with a condom for the female takes some practice and it's not as enjoyable. Oral sex is bareback for my husband/partner ONLY because of that.
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