Jeeplady

I'm looking for some advice. My husband and I are new to this lifestyle and we do not do any kind of swapping, zero. We are fine with people playing in the same room as us, even on the same bed, but no touching. We have had couples approach us before wanting to talk. I'd love to meet new people and hang out, drink, etc but I freak out every time we are approached. I don't know what to do about our limits when meeting new people. Can you give me advice me please?

My husband and I will be going to a swingers club for the first time this Friday. To join the club we will have to pay a membership fee, but there is also an event on Friday, $25 ticket. Can you please explain to me why there is an additional fee?