ThisGalNextDoor

People find posts on SLS and SDC. There is a club in Tampa (eyz wide shut) from the outside it looks a bit shady but I can say as a single female who has been there three times it is clean, fun, nice sized dance floor, clean playrooms (themed), great security, nice staff, an overall good value for the price. Then there is Caliente, while I have been there only once this is a beautiful spot with good amenities. When I am in Tampa/Clearwater I check SLS HOTDATES to see if any groups are meeting nearby. Usually something fun somewhere. ENJOY

Yes, Yes, Yes and YES. I have received invitations online (SLS) but rarely go to those. I have gone to them directly from a M&G via invitation but the one I attend most often is put on by a couple I have gotten to know over the past three years. They will post the party in HotDates on SLS and then send several of us an e-mail letting us know the date and theme. My first question ALWAYS if it is a new party is "what should I expect" and boy have I been surprised by some of the answers. One example "we expect everyone with F everyone by the time they leave." Well hell no, I don't even know you people and I ALWAYS get to decide who I F and when . . .each of us has that right. The parties I attend are not like this at all, do people "play" yes they sure do. Sometimes we know it, sometimes we don't. Lots of time it is more a dance party and M&G for later 'playing' and almost always someone is in the hot tub.

Re: FaceBook part of the question. Here is an excerpt from an article explaining that your wife did NOT necessarily do anything on FB but did perhaps search interracial on the Internet somewhere: Some ads you see on Facebook are posted using this Exchange platform. Let's use a scenario to understand this: You are planning to buy a new laptop. You go on Apple's website and sift through their catalog. The website would place a cookie on your device. Advertisers can just specify on Facebook Exchange that users with a cookie from Apple's website be shown an ad from Apple. So, when you log into Facebook, you would be shown an ad from Apple. It does not matter that you were logged out of Facebook when you visited Apple's website. The ad will be shown based on your browsing habits outside of Facebook. In a sense, Facebook might not even know that you visited Apple's website, as the ads are created using your data (using tracking cookies) compiled by the advertisers. In addition, you might see the same ad on other websites, too (not just on Facebook), as the same advertisers engage with different ad exchanges. Although, from my experience to join a PRIVATE group usually someone must submit your name (perhaps her new friend). Now as to why she might 'want' to belong to one of these private groups, I will speak from personal experience. I belong to one private group of Swinger friends and I did belong to a BDSM/Swinger combined group. Both were more out of curiosity, I thought it would be sexy and fun,both were at the beginning but eventually they became like any other FB group of friends (blah blah blah) LOL I hope you two have a wonderful date night going over her fabulous week and what might be ahead for both of you. ENJOY