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  • Birthday 01/29/1981

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  1. I just wanted to ad that this lifestyle feeds off of open-mindedness & the fact that some play with protection & others have their ways of playing safely without isn't something we should judge one another over unless there's penetration involved then you may judge weather or not you will play with that person but to each their own & if you come here asking if you are the ONLY ones who use or don't use protection I'm sorry but I have to admit it sounds foolish because those of us who live the lifestyle have more sex than the average & it is a question that not only doesn't need to be asked but also screams amateur making me believe you haven't ever played in the way of which you say you do otherwise you would know for a fact if anybody else has the same "protection preference" as you. That being said, your question, to me, is mocking & very closed-minded (the opposite of the sort of mind "swingers" possess. So really did you have to really go there & ask such a foolish question? Or am I wrong? Lastly, plz try to be mindful of others preferences because we all have different ones & each couple has a their own things that make them unique as a couple but that's also one reason why swinging is so much fun is because as a couple we get to enjoy other couples & we get to learn what sets them aside from the other couples making them new & exciting to us weather or not we agree with it. This is the point where our judgment comes in to play but its disrespectful to others to call them out on their preferences & if you're gonna keep the closed-mind then you should find a new community where they play that shit. **RANT OVER**
  2. Awe I get so wet when I hear the "hubby's" catering to us woman's needs & desires! You are right & only a real man would say that!
  3. Yes! This I know. That is the reason I'm not very vocal bc I don't want to sound unnatural. My man will tell me he liked what he heard during a session & most of the time I can't even remember what it was I said since it just happens naturally. I am just looking for suggestions so when I am in that moment I can use those words instead of just moans.
  4. Hi, I am hoping someone can give me some advice when its comes to being more verbal during play. My hubby gets turned on from any noise or slutty talk I make when getting fuked. I normally aren't too vocal bc I never want to "over do it". I like the sounds I make to be natural & I don't want to change that however, I would like a few suggestions on what things you say or have heard while in the moment that really turn/ed you on so when I am feeling it I can insert these words or sayings into the spots I normally just moan & grunt in.
  5. Yes! Yes let him cum in her! Yes! You'll probably be happy you did especially later when its your turn!
  6. I feel like they fact that you can't just play & break without knowing if there'd be any drama or anything as a repercussion is reason enough to not entertain the idea of playing with them. One of the best parts of our lifestyle is being able to "break free" (what I call it) from your play partners when things get uncomfortable so why put yourselves in that predicament? There's plenty more where they came from lol.
  7. I know its been a year or more since you made this post so in that regard I really hope everything is going well with you guys & you worked out the kinks (no pun intended). I just wanted to put in my 2 cents for what its worth from a female side of a swing couple's perspective. Honestly, the first concern I read about her wanting to make sure he climaxes if at all IS normal for me at least. I enjoy being a little slut for my hubby & one of the things that concerns me most is making a man climax for me & fill me up. So yes, I would have to say that's normal. Aside from that i have limits & boundaries when it comes to the other man & I prefer not to take things to a personal level. Some examples of this include no kissing, no looking into his eyes, no anal etc.. My hubby screens everyone very well & I trust him with my life when he makes his final decisions. He talks to them a bit & in conversation tells them our rules, guidelines & expectations. This can sometimes be frustrating & take some time in finding someone willing to commit to it all but when we do its a lot of fun! What I suggest is that you & your wife keep playing together with different men. Before screening them have a talk with your wife & see what the two of you can agree on in terms of limits & boundaries you are both comfortable with then make it known to the SM before playing. Eventually the two of you will both become more comfortable with the scene & hopefully have a SM in mind that you both are comfortable "hotwifing" (sex separately or on their own) with. It is very rare that a man gets to have an involved wife that makes suggestions & initiates the topic at all, we are few & far between even I sometimes have problems being vocal, so consider yourself a lucky man & take advantage of her willingness to play by talking these things out with her & making decisions about your common grounds.
  8. We do the "sloppy seconds" thing & I absolutely LOVE it!! My man loves fuking me right after another has finished inside of me. He tells me to stay laying down on my back until he is ready to enjoy me (normally after our company leaves). We stick with a small circle of playmates & he always screens very well for us so we play as safe as possible. I can't get enough of the way he lingers with & admires my body after getting filled by another man. I can really tell how much he enjoys it by how he takes me afterwards! I hafta admit that one major reason I enjoy being with other men is because of how great & sexy he makes me feel after! I also like to clean off my hubby's dik after he soaks it in my filled V. If we play with a female I always hope she is also okay with getting filled up because then I eat my hubby's cum out of her & clean her up as much as possible. However, we do feel like pubic hair is pretty gross & we prefer you shaved. Its cleaner in general but you can also tell if there's any visible soars or what not.
  9. SWEET!! Mine keeps getting pushed out further since my hubby is finding it difficult to find men that'll commit to it & actually show so in that happening for you at all congrats!
  10. We've been using local kik groups as well. I agree they are a great replacement for CL casual encounters. However, that's if you are mostly looking for men lol
  11. Have you tried the deepweb? Are you familiar with bitcoins?
  12. My partner likes this also. He enjoys watching me get filled with cum as well as fucking me after I've been cum in & doing "cleanup". So far, after about a year, I am fine & we haven't any problems. He does prescreen the men we play with, however, & I think this is very helpful in terms of my safety on all accounts. On the other hand, we do sometimes run into men that will only wear protection which is a little harder. To help make my partner happy & be sure he is being satisfied also I will then normally do a bj & show him the cum in my mouth before swallowing.
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