We (37/F & 48/M) are looking at slowly joining the LS, but not sure really where to start. I (37/F) used to be in, but always played as a single (was single, wasn't cheating or anything) and met people through chat rooms/friends of friends. I've moved 1400 miles away, so I don't have friends still in the community or anything.
With that said, we're both introverts and just aren't comfortable with the idea of going to a club to meet other likeminded adults. Neither of us have played as part of a couple before & while we're both very into the whole idea, we're overwhelmed by all of the swingers sites & won't even get started on the things seen on CL. (Instantly saw why people here have recommended avoiding it like the plague.)
So yeah, that's where we are & would be so appreciative for input! TIA