smithylife91

We decided to skip the escort route. SLS route is our next option but still plenty of time to figure that out..update later.

Thanks for all the input. Good points. I'll give an update to this thread a few months from now on where this goes. I doubt it will be indifference. Either we will want to continue past the first experience or we won't.

Agreed. I'd much rather meet someone on SLS.com or similar, just have night out in Vegas (get to know) with drinks and take it back to hotel if things click. Just to get to this point is a big step, though I still have plenty of time to talk her out of it and into a more preferred setup like above. That other issue is safety. baby steps I guess.

After years of talking on and off, the wife has come around to trying swinging for the first time on three conditions: 1. It has to be in Vegas. 2. It has to be an escort experience the first time so there is no awkwardness in interaction. The dude needs to get her in the mood. 3. If either of us don't like the experience we end it and forget about pursuing and just use the 'what stays in Vegas....' thinking.. This has taken a long, long time for her to come around...but on a trial experience. I think if the experience goes well there is chance to continue to real swinging. I feel like its a good compromise but the logistics of it all is daunting... Has anyone had similar 'trial' experiences in Vegas or else where? How did it go?