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  1. Hallo can we get contact i like your shares about your wife

  2. Update post: A couple of months ago, I posted seeking some advice regarding my shy wife’s a few new experiences. We both are originally from South Asia and almost two years ago moved to Europe. She is Muslim and used to be quite conservative with her living and dressing style. Since being here, she has become just a little bit more adventurous with her dressing style. I always encouraged her and also she enjoy going to parties. At one of those parties, she met a guy (say Adam) with whom she kinda hit it off. They danced, chatted and became cozy with each other. They remained in touch and subsequently they again met in another party a couple of weeks ago. They decided to go on a small day trip to be away from the known surroundings. For me it was a mixture of anticipation, nervousness, caution- everything. Here is the update after that. It was her first date ever with someone apart from me. She had already been close to him in a couple of parties (as I mentioned before in my posts), but nothing extraordinary happened. Although it was quite clear that they both liked each other and enjoyed the company. So, they fixed their first date for last weekend. She went to meet him at around 11:00 and returned home before 19:00. I had to wait until it was the night to get to know what exactly went down. Before she went out, I joked with her that Adam would definitely want to kiss her, which she said not much chance of happening. So I asked her that how far would she willing to go. She just replied that she’d just want to spend some time, enjoy the company and see how it’d turn out. At night gave me the detailed account of the day and here is how it went: She was a little nervous in deciding what to wear as she didn’t want to look too fancy yet nice. Finally, she decided to wear an angular sleeveless top (like halter neck) with a fitting stretchy pant. Underneath she wore a nice pair of thong; while as under the armpit the top was a little deep cut, she wore a regular bra. They took the same train to the city next to theirs, but from different stoppages. After getting down from the train, at around 11:30, they met over there at the station. The greeting was apparently cordial but simple, only a hug, and no kiss even on the cheek. They directly went to a festival and spent some regular cozy time without worrying someone known might spot them. After having lunch, they went to a park to enjoy a little bit of sun. At that stage, Adam asked her whether she told me that she was spending the day and having a trip with him. When she said that I know, again he asked whether I knew that she went out with him like a date, to which she responded again in the same way. He then asked whether she’s in an open marriage type of situation, which she responded to by just saying that I always encourage her to explore her sexuality. After the conversation, right there while chilling, he kissed her on her lips the first time. She told me later that she was so shy and nervous that she didn’t reciprocate. It was the first time she felt someone’s lips on hers, who wasn’t me. Within a few minutes, he kissed her again and this time she kissed him back. Then the kisses went on for a while (she actually loves kissing a lot) and those were quite hot and passionate with tongue and everything. Then they walked around the city a little and at around 16:00, went to the train station for the return journey. This whole time apparently countless kisses happened between them, with which she was visibly shy but happy with. On the train, they stood near the door as it was only a half-hour journey and exchanged numerous kisses. After asking I came to know that being outside, while kissing, his hands didn’t get much adventurous apart from occasionally grabbing her ass a little. They both down at Adam’s stoppage as she needed to take another train or tram to her stoppage. At that point, he invited her to his place for a coffee, which she declined. But, figuring out it was a weekend and the next train would take a little while to arrive, she then agreed for the coffee and went to his place which was just a minute or so away. After getting to his place, he turned the tv for her while he made coffee. When he saw that she was still wearing her shoes, he just asked her to take them off and relax for a little. Right after she took off her shoes, she turned around and felt that he had gently grabbed her. Instantly they started kissing and fell on the couch. He was on top of her and kisses were way steamier than before. He started kissing her lips, shoulder, arms, everywhere. Over her top, he continued kissing her belly and her tits. She told him to stop but didn’t actually want him to. In a couple of minutes, she regathered herself and figured she should leave. She pushed him a little and sat down to catch her breath figuring that was it. At that point, he kissed on her lips again and went on top of her on the couch for once more. She told me that she didn’t know what happened, but over her pants, felt his throbbing cock being rubbed onto her pussy. At the stage, she couldn’t control herself anymore and just kept enjoying the kissing and rubbing. Suddenly she felt that under the armpit, into her low cut top, reached his hand inside her bra. He was grabbing a tit of her and kissing. She didn’t know what happened and the next thing she noticed that he had unclasped her bra inside her top. She remembers that she took her hands higher and Adam just took both her top and bra off. She said to me that she couldn’t believe that she was with another guy while being half naked! He kissed and fondled her tits for god knows how long. She grabbed his cock over his pants and kept stroking it. Afterward, when he started sucking her tits, she knew that she had to stop; otherwise, she’d do everything. She barely got up in time for the next train and dressed up. He mentioned that she was leaving him in such a state, but didn’t want to rush it. After she had dressed up, he grabbed her tits inside her top under her armpit for once more. They just exchanged a short kiss and she ran to catch the train. Upon returning, she made me wait until it was the night when she was extremely shy to tell me about the things that happened. She said that it went way too far and never expected this from herself. Still, she can’t figure out why she agreed to get to his apartment in the first place. I have assured her time and time again that if she had enjoyed it, there was nothing wrong. She says that she definitely enjoyed everything a lot, but is feeling a guilty and shy afterward.
  3. Thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts. When I think about how she was when I met her, everything from now gives me goosebumps. It wasn't only about the religion though; the society as well as religion taught her that a girl couldn't even talk about her sexuality, let alone express it. She wore clothes covering up to ankle and wrist, barely showing anything beyond her face. Being raised & restricted like that, she was so perplexed when I first expressed my fantasies to her. Even with loving each other so much, we two were far apart with out thoughts and indulgences. I remember that we even passed a small stage where we both were even hesitant bringing up or discussing about our sexual wishes and needs. I understand that it must've been so difficult for her to even allow herself to think about some of these stuff. She grew up in a place where the girls are never even supposed to shake hands with guys. I think it would've been equally probable had closed herself her more since moving here had we not started sharing and talking about all the things she considered taboo. Fast forward a few years, with the changes in surroundings, I noticed her trying to embrace a bolder style. I didn't say anything to her, just made her feel comfortable with the things she bought, the choices she made. Now when she wears a sexy outfit, I can see the glow in her eyes, the satisfaction of not hiding, rather looking sexy & be proud of it. Others noticing her luscious legs or curvy breast don't make her self-conscious anymore, rather confident & joyous. But, even now, sometimes she says that her religious teachings may not agree with her choices. She still does her prayers & all, yet don't let them much interfere with her enjoyment. A few days ago, she was telling me like, "I always knew & believed that sex should be only between husband & wife. I still think somewhat in that way and a huge deal for me, but sometimes I feel like we should enjoy, coz it's just sex." I wouldn't believed at all a few years ago that my wife would ever be able to think about sex like that. Everything about this transformation is just so incredible​. When I went to visit her right after the day she had that party. At that night, as a prelude/foreplay, she enacted the things that happened at the party and showed me with my hand where the guy touched her, how she felt. The sex afterwards was so fun and intense that I can't begin to describe. I just tongue-fucked her for we don't know how long. And these are not like the usual fantasies we used to share only during sex & would become uncomfortable to bring it up the following morning. Day or night, we talked about everything and I bet she's also immensely enjoying that I am getting the hardest of the hard-ons coz of her. How far has she grown is absolutely amazing and we both are so much enjoying that. It's like we both are falling in love with each other again and again.
  4. Almost three weeks ago, I posted my first post here seeking some advice regarding my shy wife’s newer experiences. I mentioned there that she is Muslim and used to be quite conservative from the beginning with her living and dressing style. We are originally from South Asia and a year ago, we moved to Europe. Currently, because of her studies and my works, we are in two different cities and it’ll be like this for the next 6 months. As I mentioned, since being here, she has become just a little bit more adventurous with her dressing style. Being Muslim, from almost wearing veil to see her wearing mini skirt with stockings has been a testimony to quite a progress and a source of immense joy. And, as I said in the earlier in that post, she was really excited & planning to go to a party. Yet, she was still thinking back and forth about what to do over there because of the earlier experiences she had at another party, which she enjoyed but was quite new to her. As always, I’d like her to explore her sexuality even more and this post is to update my friends as already few weeks have passed. It was a color theme party and she wore a nice black mini dress up to almost half way through her thigh with transparent stockings. She sent me some pics before going there. She was looking really gorgeous and considering how conservative she had been all her life with being muslim and so on, i was so amazed to wear see her in that dress. She went there with a friend, but that friend got busy with a guy shortly after. So she was kinda alone for a little and on the dance floor, she met a German guy. They danced for like 2-3 songs and then started chatting. By that time, they had like one or two drinks and got a little tired of dancing, so they moved to a couch to chat. While chatting they were sitting really close on the couch. She knew a few other people at the party who might know her and they'd also knew that she's married. So, at that stage, she brought it up to him that she's married. She says that after hearing that, he seemed a little disappointed, but kept on chatting. He had one hand on her neck and occasionally was just stroking her cheek. A little later, she found her friend and went with her to get a drink or something. Later, according to her like after 3 or so, her friend left with a guy and so she wanted to leave too. When she went to get her coat, she bumped into the German guy from earlier. She told him that she was about to leave coz her friend had already left. The guy said no problem, but offered one last drink. They both took the drinks and the headed to a half roof type place (that I couldn’t figure out clearly). They sat down on which wasn’t a too small of acouch, but while sitting down, he sat first and softly grabbed her waist to make her sit on his thigh/lap. She didn’t wanna sit on his lap, but didn’t say no either coz it was darker and not many people were around who’d recognize her. After sitting down, her dress must've gone up a little more than halfway up her thigh. As she was sitting on his thigh, she felt that his one hand that was holding her waist from behind, was touching her upper thigh over her stockings a little. She was enjoying the attention though coz she says she was without the hesitation of someone known noticing her. He didn’t do much, just kept on stroking her thigh with his fingers. As soon as she finished her drink, she hugged him, just said bye, stood up and put one step forward. She had drink bottle in one hand and suddenly felt being pulled closer by the other hand. He pulled her a little strong and she just kinda heavily bumped into his chest. She told me that was the first time her tits brushed against his chest as even while dancing earlier, although he was close and grabbing her ass from sideways, wasn’t close enough to her tits. She felt his one hand was still grabbing her hand, while the other one just grabbed her from behind. She tells that she wasn’t much drunk, but was enjoying a lot of the thrill of feeling his one hand really busy over her ass. She had never been totally intimate with anyone but me and she says the feeling of another man's hand on her ass was like electric to her. She didn’t immediately stop him or his hand and when he was almost about to kiss. Right before their lips touched, she put her hand on his lips and with a smile just said bye. But he didn’t let her go though. He just pulled her a little closer and with one hand, grabbed her cheek and their lips touched. She says that she doesn’t know what happened; she was enjoying so much, but still kissing would’ve felt like a whole different level to her. He was surely more than ready to kiss and to do a lot of things, but she can’t still explain why she did what she did next. From touching lips, she just turned around while being in his arms and she was just in his arms like a hug from behind. She says that she was enjoying everything, the touch and all, she would’ve enjoyed the kiss too, but she was scared at the same time. Still she kept on enjoying every bit and at that point, his lips were on her neck and I know that she cannot resist it. She just goes crazy when I put my lips on her neck and rub them rough. She tells that she was beyond control, but thankfully she had turned around, otherwise she wouldn’t be able to not kiss him. She just didn’t wanna stop him either and I for one know that she just loved having her tits fondled. She says that luckily for her the dress didn’t have deep neckline. Hence, she just enjoyed his hand totally relentlessly cupping her tits over her dress. She felt his throbbing cock tight against between her ass cheeks. Finally, after a little while, she got out of his hands though and knew she definitely had to go then. Neither of them was too drunk, they just then exchanged numbers and that was it. Later she showed me her replies to the messages he sent afterwards casually asking for a next meet.
  5. We're apart for like 4 months now & around 6 more months to go. We meet like once a month for 5-6 days. Like I said over there, she started about it when we were bz Skyping. She started by saying would I be mad if i knew that she kinda cheated. So I asked her little more and it went for a while. At the beginning she was kinda vague. She started by talking about a small party​ she'd been to last weekend. I knew from the last party​ she had some sexy experiences, although not too much. But by her previous super conservative social lifestyle (she's muslim), still hugging guys and dancing with them was quite a progress. She told me after returning from the party on that day that she danced with a guy for long. He was grinding her big time and she didnt stop coz she enjoyed it too.Anyways, grinding & getting cozy were the extent of that what she said after the party. But last night she started mentioning that there was groping for a longer while. She enjoyed it coz most ppl didnt know her at the party​ as she went there only a friend. I asked her how much of groping and she said that he held onto her ass for the whole time & never let it go. Slowly she told me more that while grinding from behind, he had full on grabbing of her boobs & she just kept enjoying. She still hasn't told me everything for sure. It's like she's also enjoying playing this game, which is kinda sweet though. Hopefully tomorrow will know a little more.
  6. I'm not sure how to distinguish my feeling between those two. I have always enjoyed when she has been slightest promiscuous & she knows that. Even the idea of her being getting intimate with a guy without​ my permission/letting me know (which could be labeled as cheating I guess) is turning me on big time.
  7. I'm 30 & my wife is 25 and we've been married for almost 7 years. Because of my work & her grad school, we're in two different cities at present. In one of my earlier post I mentioned that she used to be super conservative, but started to open up slowly. She also knows about my fantasies regarding swinging, hotwifing or showing her off. Last night we were Skyping and doing some stuff to keep ourselves occupied. At one point she was super horny and asked me would I be mad if I get to know that she had been somewhat intimate with another guy. I told her that she knows these stuff turn me on immensely, but the only condition is to let me know everything. This went for a while and when we both were done with our things​, I asked her what actually happened. Since then she just mentioned that nothing serious happened as she didn't wanna linger that discussion. Now, either because I would like to fantasize about it or cause of some hints she mentioned, I really think there was more to it. And the thing is that it is not bothering me, rather turning me so on that I'm kinda struggling at work today. Has anyone of you guys experienced​ it the same way?
  8. For what it's worth, I mentioned in my additional comment that although she seems to think her body is too stacked (which isn't the case at all IMO), I feel she looks absolutely beautiful in short dresses. If anyone interested, for the reference, can check out the album in my profile. I'd definitely love to hear the feedback too.
  9. I understood from the other suggestions that setting up boundaries are really important & for the time being, I have already talked to her about the party I mentioned in the original post. Naturally, we both are completely ok with her dancing with other guys. Hugging is another thing that is quite normal to me. In my eyes, being married doesn't mean that my wife cannot hug another guy friend and by that I mean not half hearted sideways hug or something, rather the regular frontal ones. When I told her that in the party dancing with other guys is completely OK, she asked me that what if she enjoys this time if a guy's hands go near her boobs or ass. So, I have told her clearly that as long as she enjoys, I'd also immensely enjoy a guy going near or touching her boobs or ass. We both have discussed about it a lot and she knows about my fantasies too. So, I made it clear to her that this time I would wholeheartedly welcome her up to the point of kissing.
  10. Both me and my wife are into our early thirties and late 20s respectively. By no means we are swingers yet, but I always loved watching my wife doing something kinky or getting the slightest cozy with someone else. I even love when she shows off her sexy body in some way that the other Guys get a little bit attracted to her. Whenever we have done something online, it was her who was doing it and I was the one watching. Usually when she had something like a webcam chat, I sit right beside her (away from the camera of course) and enjoy watching her. Even as foreplay, a lot of time we do video chatting and different things online. It is such a turn on to see her chat dirty with someone else or show her beautiful boobs to while sitting right beside me. On the other hand, she is not too much of a big fan of me showing myself online or physically to someone and that is quite ok with me. Because, I am more into seeing her getting intimate with another guy or showing her assets off than myself having sex with someone else.
  11. So, what are you suggesting I should do? I figured that my original post wasn't clear enough maybe, so in the last comment I tried to fill the gaps.
  12. We've been together for a long time & we are really open to each other about our fantasies. At the beginning, she used to be just a traditional conservative south Asian girlfriend/wife due to the social & religious upbringing. She used to be quite Traditional in respect to sexual preference, dressing up etc. When I first shared my fantasies with her, she seemed quite perplexed by all these. But, slowly she began warm up to some of the ideas. She started sharing with me her thoughts about the dresses she'd like to wear if we visit/live in some other places. She was still conscious about dressing up because she wasn't entirely confident with her body. Although I just love her stacked body, she's not​ a fan of her D cups because of being only 1.55m (5'1") tall. But, since being here, as her dressing style changed, I think she has become a little more confident (although still complains about her height). When at a gathering she wore mini skirts with a crop top & sent me the photos, I could see her being kinda proud of her looks. She has managed to overcome a lot of her psychological barriers in changing her dressing style. These days, based on the occasion, she always picks the appropriate dresses. The dress she has got for the next party that I mentioned in the post is a mini dress which really beautifully shows her cleavage too & she got it without my input at all.
  13. Thanks for your support and sweet remarks. Usually when you hear about conservatism, you might think of middle East. But, even there you can sometimes see a girl showing some skin, whereas in our country (as well as in neighboring few), sometimes even jeans is considered indecent even if she has ass covered with a long top. Moreover, girls always need to wear a piece of clothing (called stoles/dupatta) on top of the tops/dress to cover the shape of boobs. So, just imagine how it's like over there.
  14. Thanks a lot for your advice. At present, due to my work & her studies, we are staying in two different cities for like 4 months. So, whenever she is off her extremely demanding study schedule, I encourage her to take short trips or occasionally to go to parties. For a long time, I fantasized about the idea of her being intimate with someone & finally a couple of years ago, I shared my that particular fantasy with her. To be honest, this fantasy just turns me on to my core. Slowly, I guess, she began to open up about this and over the past year or so, during our foreplays, we even tried out different things. Apart from telling dirty stories as I mentioned in the post, while being intimate, she also did some sexual (non-graphical) things online that turned both of us on. When she showed me some pictures with some guy grabbing her from behind from the last party I mentioned earlier, it also kind of turned me on. I am totally on board with her new found experiences & I have a feeling that she’s also enjoying the intimacy as well as the freedom a lot. We do plan to go to some clubs at the beginning of next month then I'll be visiting her for a few weeks. We also plan to going to some clubs and according to her demand does should be a little bit far from her place where the chance of people knowing her would be close to zero. We both will be there pretending not to know each other. I asked her to honestly tell me what would she be willing to do over there if no one actually recognises her. She said that she would really be able to properly enjoy herself if no one recognises her and she would be willing to let her boobs or ass be grabbed while dancing. In her own admission, the most she will enjoy is really kissing someone who she just met and see how things turn out.I am totally on board with her new found experiences & I have a feeling that she’s also enjoying the intimacy as well as the freedom a lot. That is why I am looking for ways to make her more comfortable with these relatively new things.
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