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  1. We did not. We decided beforehand that we would go and observe the first time. She will get the same treatment at the LS club too but the difference is the level of respect here vs a normal club scene. Everyone knows why you're here and that she's not alone. That's taken into account I'd think vs some random trying to scheme on her at a dance club when I'm not looking. So the way I think you'd get approached here is different? Maybe I'm naive since we are new.
  2. We had a blast! Went to a LS club in OKC last night for the first time not knowing what to expect. I was thinking it would be much smaller with an older and cliquey crowd of 10-15 couples max. This place was huge and packed with 100-150 people. Great DJ, huge spread of finger foods, majorly diverse crowd. We dressed to impress and it showed. We had tons of people approach just to introduce themselves and chat. Nobody was pushy or creepy. Everyone was having fun and we felt instantly comfortable. OF COURSE, our first night we ran into a couple I know from my vanilla life. ? This also happened at our first BDSM club foray in Denver. They walked up, said hi, and chatted for a bit. Neither him or her had met my wife until that time. His wife was totally into mine and came back naked later to tell her she was the hottest girl at the club and fawned over her. I thought we'd probably see someone at some point because we are pretty well known in general for vanilla life stuff but not the first night! ? It actually made the whole evening more comfortable tbh. We ended up sitting with some wives for most of the night and people watching. All in all, it was an amazing night. We are looking forward to attending again at the next event in two weeks. The BYOL was awesome too. We'd have spent twice the entry fee in liquor on a normal club night. The no pressure feeling was awesome too. Usually when my wife is alone at a bar, either me going to the restroom or when she does, she has constant pressure from guys and here it was never like that or uncomfortable for even a second. We were both pleased and ready for the next one.
  3. Thank you for sharing. That's exactly what we are wanting too.
  4. I know this experience will evolve and grow over time. What we want now may or may not change the more we are involved. I've just seen countless posts about people meeting in the club and the couples texting the next day or some other form of communication afterwards. I'm not sure that's what we are interested in. Not that we aren't friendly or want to meet cool people, but this part of our life, while fun, has its place. I guess I wanted to make sure we wouldn't alienate a majority of people by being this way. I suppose clear communication with anyone we might hit it off with would solve the issue.
  5. Does anyone participate in LS activities in a club/house party environment only and turn it all off at the door when you leave or does it always grow/evolve into meeting couples outside of those places as you get more into the LS? We are completely new to this and are attending our first club this weekend. Just wondering if there are those that only play in those situations ONLY and never bring it to a more personal level in their outside vanilla life. I don't know why I'm wondering this tbh. It just popped into my head after spending countless hours reading this forum trying to learn as much as possible and making an attempt at being at least somewhat informed. Lol
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