So I'm brand new to the concept of swinging, threesomes, etc. My boyfriend however has dabbled in the past. We have been talking a lot about it and I think it's something I want to explore with him and am having curiosities leaning towards initially being with another girl which of course he supports haha. Here's where I would love some insight and different perspective...I'm leaning towards finding another couple, it feels safer somehow feelings wise like they stand to lose just as much if lines were crossed and also being able to maybe make some friends while we're making playmates so to speak. My boyfriend on the other hand leans more towards just finding another single woman I don't know if this is because this is what he has the past experience with so it feels more comfortable for him or what and he hasn't been able to tell my why this seems to be his preference. It would be wonderful if anybody could enlighten me to the caveats to both sides. Thanks!!!