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Rodsteel

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About Rodsteel

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 07/18/1980

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    Couple
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    NC
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  1. Great advice everyone. I can say without a doubt that he has not been aggressive About excluding me from the relationship. I think it really boils down to two things. The first being that she sees a certain kink in the sanctioned but not forewarned meetup. Additionally, it must be hot for her to imagine how unbridled his sexual vigor would be knowing I’m not there to really intercede. Secondly, she got the sense, as did I, the last time he was there he was a little intimidated by my constant presence watching. We’ve had enough bad experiences but she’s probably also being a little sensitive to making him feel more comfortable, rather than him possibly choose to not interact with us in the future. With all of that being said, I’ve done some soul-searching over the past day regarding why I’m having some jealousy about her playing solo. I get so much enjoyment out of watching, much more so than heavy interaction, That I selfishly feel like I’m going to miss out on the experience by them having sex alone. I know I should be more mature than that, but it’s just so damn hot for me to be there and watch as everything goes down. And to a degree, and after 12 years of marriage, we are having so much fun right now I can’t imagine not experiencing every second. I understand that there are a lot of men and women out there who really enjoy the idea of their partner playing solo, and hearing all of the gritty details after the fact. I guess I just need to decide if that would also do it for me. Then again, an extensive home camera system with recording may help ease the pain. What do you guys think, based on your experience? Thank you so much for your help.
  2. Hi all, So my wife and I started playing about 4 months ago. It’s been a lot of fun, with of course the usual ups and downs. So far we have been involved in almost exclusively MFM situations. It seems to be a lot harder finding 4 people that click versus 3. Our very first experience was with another couple where we both liked him but she really did not hit it off with the other woman. So, we’ve hit more of a sweet spot, at least for now going the MFM route. We’ve also had a couple of guys that we both really liked that have failed to come back after the first or second “date”. We are really looking for a long-term FWB that we can rely on. With all this being said, we’ve recently found a guy that we both really like. BTW, I’m straight. He fits our needs from a conversational perspective, and we also like his body and sexual prowess. Here is where I’m having a bit of a dilemma. The wife is really into him and has recently told me, something I already knew, that one of her fantasies is doing him without me knowing before hand. She has agreed, and she’s never lied to me, that she would not do it without my permission. However, part of the kink is not telling me before and me only finding out afterwards. She’s also agreed to tape the entire thing for me as I really get off on watching. So a little bit of my dilemma is that I find it really freaking hot, as I like all kinds of kink, and I know he would send her back very satisfied. However, I can’t help but be a little jealous that she desires doing it without me. It’s not a big deal for her if I say no, but I also care enough that knowing that is her fantasy urges me to want to comply. Does anyone with so much more experience than me have any advice or POV?
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