DrewInPa

Thank you! I'll have to look around, and see what's available here; I think the best-known club around here (TJ's) mainly caters to couples. I'm very close friends with a couple in NJ (best friends since HS), and they sometimes go to a club in Atlantic City; I know I'd be a welcome third wheel with them, and "borrowing" her wouldn't be a problem either, so I might start thinking in those directions. Thank you!! Drew

Hi Fi86: Thank you for replying; Wow! You've had a lot more adventures than I have - most of my relationships have been LTR, but my most recent was a little on the wild side (she was Bi, and occasionally liked to bring a lady home for us both to enjoy). I can imagine some couples can make it all work, even after having kids, but the additional planning must be pretty involved. Thanks Again.

Hi Fi86: Unfortunately, no I do not (though that would be the ideal way to go, in my book). I'm currently single, which adds another dimension to the problem - I don't want ladies (or their husbands/boyfriends) getting the idea that I'm just a single guy looking to hook up. I've done a so-so amount of reading on the forum, and I get the impression that a lot of people have that perception of single guys at the clubs, (probably from bad experiences). I try to conduct myself with class, but it's not easy getting past peoples' preconceived notions, sometimes. In my intro post, I mentioned that I'm more interested in making new friends; sex is an added benefit, but not my sole reason for being interested. Thank you, Drew

Hello: As the title suggests, I'd like to visit a club (I'm not far from TJ's Lasting Impressions, in central PA), but I'm a little apprehensive: In person, I have no trouble communicating - I live by the Golden Rule, so respect, decency, and honesty are the norm. I also have a lot of interests, and a sense of humor that ranges from dry to off the wall. I'm not shy about my body (decently-built, tall, above-average penis), but I feel a little awkward going alone. I don't want to come-off as "the lone weirdo", but I don't currently have anyone to go with me. Does anyone have any advice on this? A lady's perspective would be greatly appreciated here. Thank you, Drew

Hello: This is only my 2nd post here, but I was curious: What brought you into the Lifestyle? (Disclosure: I'm completely new to it, but the initial attraction was the idea that couples can trust each other to the point that they allow each person to play, as long as their own set of rules are followed. In my past 'vanilla' relationships, trust has been an issue at times, like it is for many couples, so regardless of how moralists/religious zealots view the LS, it would seem that swinger couples enjoy a healthier, higher quality relationship - in other words, there's a lot more trust. Respectfully Learning Things, Drew