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Fi86 last won the day on January 9 2018

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  • Birthday 08/01/1986

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    16 years
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  1. I really enjoy reading your posts & comments.

    You are a very sexual woman.

    You sound wonderful & exciting.

  2. Your fantasy is actually fairly common among women. Not many will act on it, but you can certainly fulfill that fantasy through roll playing with the right man or men. Good luck!

  3. Size doesn't just mean length hun, many people forget that. For vaginal sex girth is more important, a thick cock makes for a far better feeling than a long one. Many women can't take more than 6-7 inches fully inserted anyway, so at 7-8 inches (usually about an inch at the base doesn't actually get inserted) cocks can get uncomfortable or painful. For anal the opposite is true. When getting to know a girl who you want to swing with I'd just ask what she's looking for, the conversation should go in that direction anyway. I doubt the answer will usually be BBC anyway but if it is just say you're average in size, no shame in that! BTW I also prefer well endowed men, 7-8 and very thick (6"+ preferably), but I'd never be disappointed or think twice about having sex with a guy that's 5". I've slept with guys more like 4".
  4. In my experience the decision to have sex is almost always made on personality and compatibility. Body type, penis size, etc are much less important, if relevant at all. If a woman likes you enough to swap then penis size won't come into it. You're an average size anyway, it won't be an issue. Huge cocks can cause problems anyway. Relax and have fun.
  5. Thanks everyone for your replies. You've given me a lot to think about. I need to have a think about myself and what I want. I'll post back later once I have my thoughts together.
  6. Hi Fi86 I read your​ post and I became a huge fan of you ..... I wanna be with you

  7. Created a thread https://www.swingersboard.com/forums/topic/60177-lifestyle-marriage-kids-and-being-lonely/
  8. Others have suggested I make a thread on this after my posts on another thread here What Brought You Into the Lifestyle? So here goes. I'm a single girl, 31, been in the LS since I was young, I've been very active in the LS for all these years and have a very colourful sexual history. I lost my virginity young and have been involved is most things you'd care to mention, one night stands, threesomes, parties, clubs, gangbangs, and so on. I've no idea how many partners I've had in total but I worked out on another thread it's in the 500-800 range. I'm bisexual, prefer men for sex but I bond more with women emotionally. I've not had a boyfriend in years but I have had a couple of girlfriends. I'm very independent and strong willed, I don't work well in relationships with having to consider and support someone other than myself. I'm also, let's face it, a slut. I love new partners, the LS, even being flirty and dressing slutty. Therefore I could never imagine being tied to one sex partner, any relationship would need to be open, with me having complete freedom. Anyway for the above reasons relationships with men don't work out for me and frankly not many men want to be involved with me due to my specific needs, personality, and LS. I've mostly been OK with this throughout my life. But I'm not getting any younger. The biggest concern I have is children. Believe it or not after saying all this but I'm very maternal. I've wanted 3 kids since I was a girl, and still do. The urge is getting stronger, biological clock I guess. And although I value my independence and sex life, I do still want a husband. All my friends are married, I come home to an empty house each day, and don't want to be alone forever. And if I'm to start and raise a family, I'd like to do it in a marriage. So there we have it, my life laid out. Are there men out there who would consider marrying and having a family with someone like me? Am I too difficult? Is my past too unattractive? Should I change things about myself to move to the life I want in the future? Tbh I don't know what I'm after from this thread. Advice on how to meet someone right for me, or how I should change myself I suppose. I am considering starting a family as a single parent. I'm running out of time slowly to get married before having children. This could be an option? Thanks.
  9. Thanks darling I hope so. I'm desperate to start a family.
  10. Oh I see. Yes I won't let guys switch anal to vaginal, once you've been inside my arse you stay there. I never knew it was an issue going vaginal to anal though, which I do often.
  11. You raise a point. Oral often gets forgotten about or treated as a lesser risk. As the post above says what can get transmitted from oral and infection rates differ from penetration, but unprotected oral is still a risk many don't consider the same way they do for intercourse. When I was younger I used to insist on condoms a lot more than I do now for penetration but I never gave a second thought to unprotected oral. Now I'm also generally willing to go bareback for penetration, which I am aware is risky and I won't do it for anyone. But as I'm willing to do oral and sometimes kiss without barrier protection I no longer always request condoms for penetration either.
  12. I'm sure you'll be fine. Relax and enjoy. This might sound silly but protected intercourse doesn't really involve exchange of body fluids, so in a weird way that might be more acceptable to you than oral or kissing? BTW you're not alone with being uncomfortable with kissing, it's not the exchange of fluids which puts me off but I don't feel comfortable kissing men that I'm not at least good friends with. I usually say no kissing as one of my boundaries. But I'm fine with oral, intercourse (including sometimes bareback and/or anal/DP), and with kissing other women. So go figure, maybe I'm mad lol.
  13. Firstly congratulations on wanting to dip a toe in. I don't think you'll have the problems you're concerned about if you make sure you're in the correct setting and communicate clearly. I assume you're thinking of going to a club? Clubs always have a strict no means no rule, and they cater for people's different needs and desires. Just because you've gone to a club doesn't mean she's going to get gangbanged the second she puts one foot through the door. Far from it, some people will be there just to socialise, some to watch, some to play light, others to play heavy. In fact, a lot of clubs recommend on the first night you keep your clothes on and get used to the environment, then ease in. All clubs I've been to have couples only nights (although they sometimes also let single women in). I'd go to one of those, or a newbie night if they do them. They'll be no pressure, go relax, perhaps not even play. It's not uncommon for couples on couples nights to not swap, so then you can fulfill your desire of having sex around others, and if you're asked to swap just politely decline and this will be accepted without issue. Once you do want to start a level of sharing then communication is key. Communication is always most important when swinging! Just say you're perhaps still new, still getting comfortable, and that you'd like to keep to light play, hands and toys, and no kissing. Everyone has boundaries, it's expected, yours might be lower than others but people should respect them, or at worst choose not to play with you (no harm done). Have fun! Oh and regarding your wife's germ fear, I've been in the lifestyle for many years and pretty much done it all. Never caught anything but a cold.
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