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Fi86 - Thank you for your reply. On the plus side, my little buddy is thick. I’ve never had any complaints, (that I know of...lol), but I’ve never concidered putting myself out-there for all to see either... It was only after window shopping that I took notice of my size differences. I feel more confident to move forward. Thanks to all who posted, it really helped!

Allyandhubby, I believe every couple entering into the Lifestyle needs to move at a pace that’s comfortable for them and their relationship. Everyone and every couple is different. After 27 years of marriage, no need to aggressively rush into something that can cause irreversible damage. Communication is definitely key here. You should take your time. Nothing wrong with learning from each experience, then working together to move your comfort level forward. We’re both 53, and have always had a very intense sexual relationship from the very being!, then one night, enjoying our newly “empty nest” status, we tumbled across Playboy channels “Swing House” show, and we both became instant fans! So, we’re currently working out bodies, gettin in shape so we can start our journey! LOL - 2018 is the year for us, a few more months and it’s off to the local LS club!

Glad to hear that it was a great experience for you both! Big step visiting a SL club for the first time, at least we think so... Can’t wait for our first experience... I imagine there’ll be another visit coming in your near future, lol... Wife looked amazing by the way! Thanks for the update.

Please, let us all know how it goes!! Like I mentioned above, married 25 years, eagerly working to meet others too! Would love to hear about your first experience.

Adamgunn - Thanks for your reply. Little body image conscience putting myself out there... I’m sure I’ll get over it once we dive in... After reading other like post, gotta look at the positives! At least I get rock hard, love oral, and as far as I know, no performance issues in front of others... Thanks again...

My wife and I are at the same place in our marriage! 25 years together, last child moved away, started watching the Playboy channels “Swinger House” while having crazy passionate sex in our living room, and now, we’re working out and getting in better shape preparing to leap into the LS this new year! My wife has even expressed finding a mentor to teach her how to satisfy another woman! We’ve discussed our comfort levels & boundaries, and discovered we’re fortunate enough to have a marriage with a solid foundation that’s committed to each other’s needs. That being said, we Believe we’re ready to enjoy others in and out of the bedroom!

Married Couple ready to enter the Lifestyle... I’m having some reservations after window shopping profiles, some males don’t show their member, they just show the female. Then there’s the hung like a horse guy comparing flashlights and what not to his pride and joy! Now, is being undersized in comparison, 5 inches, going to be an issue? My wife seems to likes it! LOL I understand she’ll have fun with the larger version mentioned above, and I have no problems with that, in fact, I can’t wait to hear her screaming out in ecstasy playing with a bull! So, my worries, is this going to make it harder finding playmates? Playmates that you “want” to play with? Considering other female being use to the “larger” package, is she going to be interested in playing with a smaller one?!? When does penis size come into the conversation? Or, am I being a typical guy focusing in on penis envy?? Want my wife to have the best options available seeing how we want to play with couples... Threesomes, no brainer... Thanks in advance for your advice and commits...