So, I went for it, asked to simply open up the conversation for discussion. There was a huge blowup, I slept on the couch, and now, no more threesome's altogether. Not quite how I expected for things to go.
ChaTam, that's great advice. I'll find a gentle way to talk about it. Hopeful it will at least put the conversation on the table, even if it's a while till woman joins us.
To be more clear about our situation: I love seeing her pleasured by another man. It's so hot to see her get pounded and then pound her even harder. Plus, it had brought us to a different, better level of intimacy. I'm not jealous about the men she is with, but I do want her to trust me with another woman and not have negative feelings about it.
Hi, my girlfriend and i have hosted a few mfm threesome's, which have gone down smoothly and caused no hard feelings between us. We have had conversations about doing an fmf, but she is really not into girls and can't handle the thought of me with another woman and doesn't want any more conversation about it really. Is there a way to ease her into into it? What can I say to help ease her mind? Should I just drop it? It is even worth pushing?