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We had a guy want to do the whole Hotwife thing......that's not what we into.We know what we like I just wish a 4 way connection wasn't so hard to find. I'm just not cool with him playing with single women.

Thank you for your input. We have been in this long enough to know what we like. It's not that I don't want him playing with anyone it's just that I don't like him messing with single women or chatting them up. He's cool with not doing this but sometimes it causes discussion between us because couples are so hard to find where we all 4 connect so it seems like the only options are to play with single men or women.

HELP! My husband thinks it's hot to watch me have sex with other men and join in but I do not have those same feelings when it comes to him playing with women. I do not want to see it or hear it. I don't like it when he has sexual conversations with single women either. I hate the anxiety I feel when I know he's talking to someone but feel guilty for making him feel like I don't want him to have some fun too. We play together/separate rooms or same and prefer couples but that is so hard to find. If I'm busy playing with someone I don't concern myself with him..........am I crazy? I can't be the only person who feels this way....I'm tired of this Tug-of-War with him and just feel like quitting.