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Chloeangel

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About Chloeangel

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 07/20/1989

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    TN
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    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. Thank you for that. Very fortunately, finding someone else will not be an option. He is my best friend and lover. Oddly my favorite role model. There can be no comparison to that. We are an open minded couple and are still enjoying one on one play two years in. It's hard to make time to explore other options at this time. I want him to be able to express himself and live out his wants or needs. Despite having open concersations, I know some people tend to hide what they feel like is a BIG revealing turn off. I personally have had taken a moment before answering questions he has or fear of giving an "acceptable" answer and not the truth. In other words, I didn't want to share something with him to turn him off. We have had some pretty explicitly detailed convo. Rough sex means something different to each person I talk with. Some it's spanking or kink and others is full blown dungeon and role play. I am willing to do whatever. Lol. I just don't know if a simple discussion is a hint to more or do you just go all out surprise? I don't want to make him have uncomfortable conversation cause I care that much about him but at the same time I don't want to leave him lacking. I am probably overthinking. I will talk more with him next time we get a chance and let you know the outcome.
  2. I am in a wonderful relationship. We were recently watching adult movies the other night and we were asking questions to each regarding what we saw and if we liked it. We have been together almost two years. I am bi and he is straight so we watched an array of vids. So. We are professionals. I am a confident woman and he is a confident man. So we freely spoke. We both made comments at different times that we enjoyed the rough sex videos when in the right mood. Sex after watching videos was fin and exciting. I was down on him and teasing and vice versa. Wonderful intercourse. And then cuddle time. None of it "rough" or at least not like he discussed. He is a wonderful laid back man. My question is do I design a sexual experience where he is holding the reins so to speak? I don't think he would ever act on anything for fear of running me off or hurting me. Neither of which I am concerned about. I have an interest in enjoying it. How can I present myself or let him know he can have fun with it and act out on what he enjoys watching? Or is this normal to enjoy watching it and maybe he has no interest in acting out?
  3. Fetishes? Fantasy? What are they interested in? How to tell when it how to make the play?
  4. I have a couple questions about how to get started. So. I havent asked my SO about playing around with another yet. But once we get past that step, how can we take the next? I personally wanted to invite a 3rd in (woman) and see where this leads from there. I prefer for it to be amiable but not a personal friend. How can you meet people willing to play? I know everyone says a club but we were thinking about someone somewhat local and not in another state. :/ Ideas?
  5. So...we have never been to a club before. I haven't mentioned going with my guy yet. I am chrrently doing research. I want to be safe and as knowledgeable as possible without having any previous experience. We are very much in love with each other and we are open with our likes and interests. I am curious about experimenting and maybe even going all the way if everything goes well. How do I introduce THAT idea to him? We are both professionals. I am late 20s and he is late 30s.
  6. We have very open communication about sexual interests. I would love to go for the experience but am afraid my man wouldn't have a good time and I don't want him to feel left out on any adventure I partake in. I am in the late 20s and am trying to figure out what all sexual activities I really do enjoy. Been sexually active for 10 years but only recently happily satisfied the last year and half. Is this worth our time? I hear mixed revoews. Nothing negative. I just want to male sure the scene is more open to couples close to our age.
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