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Sereno & Rider

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About Sereno & Rider

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 03/03/1952

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple/MMF/MFMF/MFF/MFM
  • Location
    Dominican Republic/USA
  • Interests
    Horses, boats, travel, enviornment, helping those in need, gardening, cooking?, world events. Have done lots of things in the past so well rounded. Rider in gym and pool 5 days a week. Deep conversations sometimes. SEX and pleasing Rider!
  • Occupation
    Retired/writer
  • Swinging Experience
    1 month
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

Swinger Info

  • Favorite Club(s)
    Hedo II
  1. The food was typical AI. Some recycled and about the same thing per meal. And like most AIs' it was a cattle call at each opening and this was where we noted more pushy/rude people cutting in line and heaping plates leaving little for the next person. (nothing outrageous but just the typical cattle call.) Nothing to write home about but was OK. We did not get into the 3 other main dining places due to lines. We did like the little beach restaurant that had burgers and other quick items that was fast for lunch or early dinner. Getting drinks, sodas or coffee was easy and nice.
  2. Customs in Jamaica. As I told in another thread, we had the VIP package that we paid extra for.... that was not very VIP at all. If you have been to some other countries in the past 6 months you may need to check in at the health desk. This is at the bottom of a ramp as you enter the passport check area. If you have been to any 3rd world countries you might want to check with them before you get into the passport check line. Two lines for passport check. One is standard and the other VIP. The VIP line had around 25 people in line and the other about 150. They do have a club in the airport, https://www.prioritypass.com/en/Lounges/Latin-America-and-Caribbean/Jamaica/Montego-Bay/Montego-Bay-Sangster-Intl/MBJ1-Club-Mobay-Arrivals-Lounge that is free using.. I think American Express card. We didn't know about the Club when arriving but found waiting for departure. You also get VIP passes their. So we will skip paying for the Hedo VIP service and do it on our own. We also got the name and number of the car that drove us to/from airport and Hedo. Having Hedo arrange the car was over $100 for round trip. We call him direct and it's around $80. As in most countries, negotiating is part of doing business so don't be afraid to offer 1/2 asked price then spit the difference. Sorry that I'm a little vague of some things but my Rider was doing her thing taking care of these little details for us. Ok... next question please!
  3. We had an ocean view room with hot tub on the Prude side since this was our first time and didn't know what to expect and wanted to have the options to either stay prude OR be adventurous. We found that the whole place, other then the "cattle call" to the buffet was mostly relaxed and polite. Think of a large cocktail party and mingling with a few hundred people. You know that you and they are nude but you really are talking and interacting with the person and not the nudity unless you click with the people you are talking with and the conversation and body language changes a little. As in any party, you find others that you like and some that you don't, so you kindly excuse yourself and move on. We found more polite and respectful people at Hedo then we would at a party with strangers. I guess that everyone knows the rules and are more conscientious concerning respecting others, not judging, not being pushy and being gracious when not interested in others and not being offended when they are not. We also noted that most, not all, kept their drinking at a "feel good" level but not sloppy drunk. With free booze everywhere and being offered via wait staff on the beach, we kept are intake at a very slow pace and often just having water or juice that is easy to obtain. The Prude side has the rooms set back from the beach more so you don't have people that close. Most are walking or lounging near the water. Some clothed and some nude and not much action. The hot tubs at some of the rooms can seat 6 but a little crowded. Open to the beach side so anyone can see but lattice on the 2 sides giving a little privacy. Walking clothed thru the nude side is fine but need to strip off once at your destination. Cloths in the dinning areas. Some public areas are a mix of prude/nude and a few couples being intimate but not being exhibitionist. That goes on at the far end swim up pool bar and hot tub next to it. The action at that pool and hot tub can happen at anytime. Seeing a head between legs and more at 9AM was not uncommon but I'd say, more loving. (us included.) Of course, as the booze intake increases with time so does the action. We seldom saw any obvious gawkers and the couple or group pretty much did their thing while surrounded by 20 or more people. All polite and respectful but seeing a watcher get a hard on and wife/gf start to play while watching the main event was ok too. We saw about 16 people in the hot tub at most and not crowded in. The tub is a 4 leaf clover design that worked rather well. Mostly couples but a few with others joining in. (including us.) The play room is kinda off the main paths and having to walk thru the main dining area from one approach. Most entered in cloths and greeted by a staff person in the entry area. Told to disrobe, grab towels and sheet and you enter a dimly lit room. Single mattress' on 2 sides for couples not looking for others to join them (that's up to you) and a bunch in the middle that are for those wanting to be closer to others and may be open to have others join them. Really rather relaxed in one sense but so erotic... depending on how you view the whole experience. Another room that is set up as a dungeon is available. We felt safe, secure, turned on and had NO problem having sex... several times. We brought a few of our own toys and really made this erotic with lots of sensual touching while taking our time... and watching others moving around in the dim light. Saw MF/FMF/FFM/FMFM...you get the seen. lol. When done we got dressed, put our towels and sheet in the hamper left. The roof is open so the main room is a courtyard so closed when raining. We were told that another room was available when it rained but could not find it. Can not help you with your travel plans other then customs in Jamaica is NOT quick and expect some rather unhappy customs people. We got some discounts, as first timers?, by calling and asking for them. Still not cheap but ... we are going back and feel that we again got some discounts. (But then again, most likely they do that for everyone that calls for the reservation. lol) Edit: Study the map and READ the rules on the Hedo sight. .. bathrooms are past the hot tub so always having people passing thru. A self beer tap and soft drinks area is near as well as a smoking area. So lots of people moving around near the hot tub with plenty of opportunities to meet others. (well... not in the rest rooms.. at least not us.)
  4. Our first time anywhere and it was at Hedo II a couple of weeks ago. My wife and I are (were) similar to you two. After a short time at Hedo II, we did hook up with someone that we clicked with. Lots of nude people of all types and public sex. Only ONE aggressive couple that we let know that we were not interested in them and they went away. Very relaxed and non-judging. Lots of options and space. Read my post: 1st post, 1st time and WOW. We are booked to go again in March. (we hated it that much. LOL)
  5. This should be interesting and a learning experience. I hope? I don't have much body hair but my bush, and Riders, are normal and get a little bushy. We use a grooming razor to trim rather close but leave some. We have both tried shaving and had problems with nicks and ingrown hairs as well as the sharp incoming hair if we don't shave often that requires repeating the process. I'm told that it gets better with time but we just don't want to take that much time shaving baby smooth. I suggest that you and yours find what works for you and looks good to you. Might be some fun playtime for you both? lol Perhaps grooming so that you don't have an obvious tree clearing line at the upper forest. lol. We thought of waxing but .......... OMG... the maintenance, costs and irritation goes back to.... ain't worth it. Most important? Do what YOU are comfortable with and don't worry about what others might be thinking. Good luck and let us know.
  6. Hey! We are still new at this so does not matter as long as we all click. Just about anything could be/would be exciting. lol After all. It's not like we can go down the store aisle with 100's of choices.
  7. We have several that do different things that we use depending on the mood. One favorite is a very soft velvet cloth that we very lightly drag over the skin during foreplay. Using a blindfold on Rider doing this really starts her motor not knowing where I'm going to tickle her. We did just wear out one toy after 2 years but have a replacement ordered. Right now; after our week of playing at Hedo and a lot more at home, our favorite toys are a little bruised and require a little rest/repair time. Her pussy and my cock.
  8. For us it was mainly about building Riders' confidence and getting her want to be involved and even take the lead where she wanted to... and she did. After taking care of old baggage I: Suggested some sexy cloths on Amazon for her to choose. Suggested a couple of new toys from Amazon also. Her choice. After I did a lot of research looking at Adult places, including reading lots of the comments, I sent the links and let her do her own research. We talked about the pros and cons and as you have read, she set the rules. We had a flight layover in Miami and I suggested going to a mall that had a Victorias Secret and we shopped some more. Her having done her own research, including map study of the place, I let her take the lead and very much kept my mouth shut. She had her massage, manicure and pedicure. Put on her new sexy underwear and beach wrap. Her self esteem, confidence, feeling sexy, happy and being able to call the shots for what she wanted to due was amazing. Don't think that I was being Cucked.. I was at her side holding hands and being a part of the whole process but stayed away from the Alpha Male part of me. We just rolled with and opened up to what was around us and let what things happen that she/we felt comfortable with. That's what worked for us. And it is still working. Good Luck
  9. Maybe someday? We don't know of any swingers down here. Ocean front in the Caribbean with fully equipped 3 bedrooms/3baths apt. with own pool. Walled/gated private property with our private home with our pool plus another apt. Secure, potable water and own elec. systems. Cable TV and wifi. Might even get the hot tub working again... lol. 1.5 hour flight from Miami and 20 minutes to our place at the edge of town. Cheap hotel down the street too. Now... what to do with our domestic workers during the day and our 3 National Police that live in the small apt? (maybe they join in? lol. at least you will know that someone is watching.8-O ) Ohhh... the possibilities! Edit: NOT advertising. Just thinking/wishing out loud.
  10. I guess I should shed a little light on why my wife and I talk about the past. My wife was always somewhat reserved and I knew that she had secrets. With all current news of women being forced, we talked about that. Then she started to open up about how she felt and experienced the same thing years ago several times over several years. Powerful men or men that would pay attention to her and make her feel good... just to find out that all they wanted was a BJ or fuck. Her feeling used, powerless and ashamed. Years of thinking that it was "her fault", at least in part. Some of her sharing was just to learn about her and the relationships that she enjoyed and perhaps I could do some things that I had not done before... let's try somethings new, exciting and adventurous. Talking about the good, the bad and the ugly helped us both. Cleared the air that she/we didn't know was polluted. Got rid of the guilt that she should not have been carrying and by letting me in, that I was more of a caring and understanding husband then she realized and that everything between us is REALLY good and solid. This was a major turning point in our 30 years of marriage. Those talks led us to my 1st post, 1st time WOW. A completely different wife that was confident and was so sexy that had my jaw dropping to the ground. That's a different event and sharing.
  11. Anyone actually been there? Reading about it and sounds like a young crowd with very loud music. (I e-mailed to get some info.) Might be a little too expensive for our "passing thru Miami" to have a membership used only a few times a year. Very close to the hotel that we stay at. Thanks.
  12. Interesting. Since my wife and I are kinda in the same situation. We have been talking about our past relationships with others but she is reluctant to give details and usually I get "I don't remember." To me, simple questions such as: What was the attraction? What did you two have in common? Where did you meet? How long did you date before sleeping together? How did you feel about the sex and what turned you and him on? She just says... "I don't remember." It's like me pulling my own teeth out. lol. She very seldom will ask me about my past so I gently will work it into our talks when I feel it would help her. Since we just returned from our great experience at Hedo, I make some comments trying to share the experiences and to keep that vibe going. I was right there and saw mostly what was going on and joined in at the end. She does talk and brings up a little but she said that "I'm beating it to death". Though she understands that it is a turn on for me to get a little more details I'm understanding that she is not getting that same turned on feeling. Quite the opposite. Reading here and other threads, this appears to be a basic difference between men and women? I like to be more verbal during sex and she does not at all. I ask her; where she goes during sex and she says that she does not really go anywhere in her head and that she is in the moment and feeling what is going on and does not really know what is going on around her. Is this common for other women?
  13. Try a club that has options in a safe and open environment. Know that you will most likely never see any of these people again. Let HER lead the way and find her comfort zones. We found that most people at the club we started with are not judgmental and anything can happen but respectful when the "connection" just is not there. Set some rules and be able to change expectations and the rules since you may find yourselves changing. We did and glad that we did. See/read: 1st post, 1st time WOW.
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