Hey, somewhat new to the forum and this is my first post! My husband (early 30s) and I (early 20s) are fairly new to swinging, though we've talked through it a lot over the years and are ready to start going to clubs this weekend. We've also made plans with a single guy we're familiar/comfortable with for a couple weeks out from now. We're definitely getting started here and very much looking forward to it all!
We were talking the other night about chatting with people at clubs in general, and the topic of overly-identifying info came up as we wouldn't want to be caught off guard by questions that could reveal where we work, for example. We're not sure any of this stuff would be brought up by others anyway, so I have two questions:
1. What's your experience at clubs/sex parties/etc as far as whether or not this stuff really even comes up in conversation?
2. Which details about yourself(ves) do you avoid giving other swingers?
Thanks!
