Hello! I have recently joined this site as for quite a few years I was having this fantasy (growing out of my jealously I think) of watching my partner having sex with another man. I wasn't jealous with all my past partners but only for the ones that mattered to me.
Nowadays I have my own family, married for 8 years. My wife (37, me 42), although she has a great sex drive, she has been worn down by the daily routine (work, kids, household etc). All these add up to her conservative character.
However my fantasy is still growing and although I know that here in Greece is (still) a very difficult place to start swinging, I am trying to find a way to bring the subject on the table. She knows me since her early teens as I was older and womanizer... She did have a few experiences with various partners but nothing great! What worries me is that she was always asking me how I was going out with all these girls without feeling for most of them and that for her sex is all about feelings! And this is exactly my worst fear.
How I can open to her that I would love a MFM? I have read a lot in here and although some views match my case I don't think they can help me. The only step towards this direction I have taken is that I booked a weekend at a spa hotel for the two of us without kids after long time! But still there is a long way to go...
Any input is welcome!
