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  1. Well, it happened again. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me. My girl and I hung out with the new couple again and we all went back to our place. I felt great this time. I got along well with the other guy and his wife is super cute. I couldn't wait to see her naked! I only had three beers throughout the night to up my chances for an erection which meant my nerves were crazy. Things started with us guys going down on our girls. I was eating my girlfriend and was about halfway hard. The couple suggested we swap so us guys got up and traded places. I saw that he was rock hard and I went soft. I went down on the other girl trying to clear my mind. Kind of embarrassing to say but it was the first time I'd ever tasted a female other than my girl. I jerked my stupid dick while I ate her out and got a little something going when she wanted to suck my dick. The girls stood up and us guys sat down on the couch. I was fixated on my girl as she put the other guy's cock in her mouth. Of course, he was perfectly hard. The wife in front of me put my half hard dick in her mouth and did the best she could. She switched and used her hand to try to get me hard but it didn't happen. However, I did discover that I can come with a soft cock. I didn't know that was possible but I did it! Watching my girl work the other guy drove me crazy in the best way possible. Combined with the naked cutie in front of me put me over the edge. She laughed a little which was understandable. I was mortified again. My girl kept sucking the other guy until he finished as we watched which was very sexy. I loved that part of it! I was relieved the night wasn't a total waste because of me. The other couple fucked and got each other off while I stayed soft. I don't know what to do. The experience was very hot and I enjoyed parts of it but it's not looking good for me.
  2. We met the new couple and they were very nice. They've done this before which is a little intimidating to me but they were very down to earth and ok with us being newbies. My girl and I told each other (and the other couple) there would be any physical contact the first meet up. Admittedly, I tried to go back on that and suggested to my girlfriend that we get a room but she kept me in check and said no. The girls have texted a couple times since we met and think we'll try to meet up soon!
  3. Thanks for all the advice! It helps knowing other guys have experienced this as well. We decided to try again with another couple and have a date to meet another one. They seem nice and we've agreed to just meet without anything sexual the first night. I don't normally lack self confidence. I think it boils down to relative lack of sexual experience. I've only had the one partner so some insecurities have surfaced at the opportunity to have more. So, if the same thing happens I think it'll solidify I'm not cut out for group sex (even as badly as I want to be). Yes I've been able to get hard with my girlfriend after that dry spell (thank god). I decided to wait on the viagra and drink less like everyone has advised. My girl still has the fantasy of being with a black man but we're going to wait until after we meet this couple before exploring that any further. Not an exciting update but there it is
  4. Thanks everyone. Good to know I'm not alone in this problem. I'm thinking about suggesting to my gf that we explore her BBC fantasy so that way if it happens again I won't spoil the night for another couple. I can't figure out if I was nervous because of only being with my gf so far, and I was about to get with someone else for the first time. Or, if it was the other guy in the room. At least if I am hard with only one other guy, I know it's the new girl aspect. If I still can't get hard, at least it won't affect the sex that night.
  5. I didn't feel nervous which is what worries me. I've really blown the issue up in my own head over the last week and would love to start swinging but am terrified to try again. Also, I'm brand new here so I can't send PMs yet but I appreciate the messages!
  6. My girlfriend and I have been together for seven years (since senior year of high school) and decided to try some new things. We're fairly adventurous and open minded so we want to explore swinging. My sexual experience is limited to my girlfriend and she was with one guy before me. We were both excited to explore new partners together. I couldn't wait to be physical with another female and was excited to see my girl with another guy. We've had several open and direct conversations about expectations and wishes, then began looking for another couple. Basically, I was thrilled that I was going to double my number of sexual partners and didn't have many specific requests other than a bj from both girls at the same time. My girl said she wanted to try DP, and said she's always wanted to get with a black guy (we agreed to explore that one later). We found a nice married couple close to our age that we really liked. They also are new to swinging which was a big relief for us so that we could all learn together. They're both very nice and fun people to be around. The wife is very cute, so I was instantly attracted to her. My girl found the husband attractive so we went home with them. After some drinks and more conversation, each couple started kissing and undressing. I couldn't help staring at the other girl while her husband undressed her. By the time we all got undressed, I noticed a problem. I'm sure everyone noticed. I wasn't even close to hard. It's never happened to me before and I still can't believe it was a problem with two beautiful naked women in the room. The husband did not have an issue. He was fully erect by the time he got naked. My girl kissed me more and tried giving me a handjob but nothing was happening. I was panicking inwardly but tried to act cool outwardly. My girl obviously knew this wasn't normal and did her best to calm me down by whispering dirty talk into my ear and even encouraging me to check out the other girl. She said "you get to fuck that hot girl." I know she was trying to help but my nerves went through the roof and I got a nervous sweat across my brow. I tried to get my mind off my flaccid penis by going down on my girl while masturbating my dick. The other couple did the same. I ate my girl for what seemed like forever but my stupid dick wasn't any closer to an erection. There was no more ignoring the problem. The girls asked what they can do to help. I even went into the bathroom to see if I could get things going alone. Talk about awkward. I actually fought back tears while in the bathroom. I walked back into the living room feeling embarrassed and very awkward. They were all sitting there waiting for me and very clearly disappointed. I'd never seen the look that on my girl's face. She was so disappointed and obviously embarrassed that her twenty-five year old boyfriend is impotent. I said the three of them can still have sex but the wife wanted someone new along with her husband. They were nice about it but the disappointment in the room was palpable. I've never felt smaller. Since that night last week, my problem has persisted. I feel like I lost my manhood that night and haven't been able to perform. I feel terrible that I did that to my girlfriend. I know how much she had been looking forward to it. I have no idea where to go from here because I feel like the only way to fix the problem will be to get hard in another swinging situation but am terrified the same thing will happen. My girlfriend is sympathetic and nice, but I can't imagine she will be much longer. She kept texting the married couple for a few days and even asked for another chance but they aren't interested. They're looking for another couple. I know this situation is uncommon but can anyone shed some light? Have any guys out there gone through slumps like this or am I dealing with a larger problem? I have an appt to get some viagra but I'd like to get back to my usual self and not feel so emasculated.
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