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Thanks East. I sometimes hate the electronic world we live in. Lost nuances, expressions etx... You are dead on. We have no issue the big picture just these silly little ones.

That was helpful. Not that I do not appreciate all input but having someone mention normal is the validation? I am curious about.

Thanks East. We are a united front in everything. Pretty unstoppable as a team really. I guess I am just having a case of the "what ifs". Anyone with a brain knows how mentally self destructive those are regardless of the subject matter.

Thanks for all the replies. I really wish I had prefaced this post with a emoji depicting me with googly eyes doing the crazy sign. This is not a life and death, ultra serious problem. It is more of a... why in the hell am I worried about trivial, inconsequential stuff. I just watched wifey frolick. I can appreciate the thought that a MFM is all about her but I respectfully disagree. I am not gay or bi but dammit hearing him moan from getting his pleasure was pretty awesome too. I dunno, it is not a major issue and certainly not going to stop us. I guess I should have asked: does anyone,even after plenty of experience, get niggly, irrational thoughts about stuff? As for the confidence boosters telling me she will not leave for another... that is a non issue for us. None of those kind of thoughts exist. That is why I am so perplexed. Anyhow, thanks to all and I am sure we will be regular contributors as our adventures evolve.

Thanks for the reply. As I mentioned the night really requires an explanation. Suffice it to say I handled it well. Until a couple of years ago I was "that guy". Jealous,insecure,possesive etc... something finally clicked and that all just went away. I still had concerns on our first try. I just knew that some deep,hidden brain booger would come out and ruin the night. When SHTF so to speak those thoughts did not even exist. *pats shoulder* I am so proud of me, wifey and our marriage.Mostly me though:lol: I guess this recent feeling is just the natural anxiety due to the newness.

Hiya! First time on the boards. There is so much to say but the condensed version is that we recently had our first experience. MFM that was,while fun, rather anticlimatic. We will post more on that experience later. The issue at hand is as follows: neither of us were aware of our friends endowment beforehand. It was not a factor. I,hubby, did not even see it until late in the action. Wifey's noises indicated she was enjoying it and that is all that mattered. Gave me a reasonable chub to be frank. It turns out he was smaller than my average appendage. I really couldn't have cared less if he was huge. Fast forward... we have been chatting with a guy for a while that we both like and share an eerily similar personality. The thought of entertaining him is exciting to both of us. My hangup is that I just saw a pic of his package. It's a bit longer and thicker than me. Not ridiculously so. I am struggling with the thought of wifey really enjoying it. If it were a monster I would be ok due to the novelty. To be so close in size but not quite attainable seems sucky. What the hell is wrong with me?