Sigh. I have come across so many posts describing men that have struggled for years to entice their wives or girlfriends.
So when my partner recently commented that "he doesn't want another guy marking his territory", well I found myself a little stuck as I haven't come across this response in any of the articles I have read.
He isn't completely disinterested. There have been times when he has been jazzed at the idea.
Nor do his concerns present as insecure, fearful, or suggest an aggressive, worrisome sort of dominance. Just simple. Healthy. Matter of fact-like.
As this territorial concept seems to have become more and more rigid I find myself at a bit of a loss.
I have consistently read that communication is the key to living this lifestyle. But also never wanting to coerce, pressure or verbally manipulate your partner into doing something they aren't ready for.
Any suggestions on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated
