My husband and I have been thinking about delving into swinging for a while now, but I am a bit apprehensive because we are different ages...by alot. He is 32 and I am 49. I have been told that people don't really notice our age difference because he looks older than he is and I look younger, but people say alot of nice things that aren't true lol
So I am concerned say we get in a position with a couple and they are attracted to him because he is younger and not me... or say the couple is older and he isn't attracted to her. Or no one is attracted to me and I end up just being alone while he has fun. These are the things my overthinking mind thinks about!
Does anyone have experience in an age gap relationship?
Also, I found a swingers club here where we live, but it seems a little overwhelming to jump right into that. Is there a less intimidating way to get our feet wet?
