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RookieLove

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About RookieLove

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 05/14/1985

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Texas
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    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. Thank you all for your replies! We hold honesty above all else. That said she is very self conscious about the issue and a bit reluctant to tell anyone about it. That is not to say we wouldn't tell a couple about the physical boundaries if it ever got that far but we hesitate to lead off with "Hey we really like you guys but we cant have sex!" if that makes any sense. As for the cause its not age. We are in our early 30s and its been an issue from the start. Surgery, dilators, even numbing cream haven't helped. Thanks again for all the replies!
  2. Yeah I should have been more specific. Specifically penetration is near impossible. She enjoys clitoral stimulation and being held on the inside but anything more than two fingers is too much.
  3. My wife and I are new to the lifestyle. We have been to the club a handful of times and soft swapped once with another couple. We enjoy our time with the other couples and want to continue but we have a small problem. My wife is unable to physically have sex. Without getting to deep into the details, sex for her is extremely painful. We have been married over a decade and have only had sex a handful of times. My question is, how would you handle a couple who is unable to full swap? Is it even worth your time to engage in conversation with a couple if you knew there is no chance for full on sex? Is it even worth continuing to pursue swinging if we are going to be rejected due to our inabilities (not faulting the other couple)? The last thing I want to do is deceive someone or waste their night with expectations of sex when they could be engaging with another couple who they have a shot with.
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