Just joined and seeking a little advice. My husband and I have been LS for a total of 5 years, together 10 years. We recently started hall passes.
I have always been the one that wants sex all the time in our relationship. I would have sex with him every day if he would be up for it. Husband is usually telling me he is too tired and we end up having sex once a week.
I have been trying to get it through to him that if he can't make time for me, why would he make time for a playmate? To him we see each other every day (during the week we usually see each other for about an hour and he's too exhausted to have sex) and I shouldn't have a problem with him having an occasional hookup, despite me feeling like I was turned down by him all week long.
He says that I overthink things. So I thought I would ask fellow swingers.
