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BIC1961

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About BIC1961

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  • Birthday 03/13/1961

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  • Relationship Status
    Single Straight Female
  • Location
    Central MD
  • Interests
    Equestrian, Gardening
  • Swinging Experience
    Having fun again!

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  • SLS Name
    BestInClass61

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  1. I have a tilted cervix which limits me to around 8'ish inches in length. Girth is not a problem, the bigger the better. I love a very hard, fast and furious pounding doggy style, but anything too long will spear my cervix, which is exceptionally painful. I can manage slow movements, but it takes a bit of body maneuvering to find the right comfortable angle. I can take much larger at other angles, such as on my side. There are a couple of males the local house parties who I limit my play with for this reason. I've told them why and they understand. Periodically I get an idiot male who tells me I just need a good stretching out and he can do that for me.
  2. My preference is 7-8" and thick. Anything bigger is capable of spearing my cervix, which I do not enjoy. I find it quite funny when I receive messages on SLS from males claiming to be 12". I politely respond with a "No Thank you". Actually had one tell me I was making a huge mistake by turning him down.
  3. Thank you so much! I was able to get more info this evening, so I think I'm good to go! I'm sure I will second guess my attire many more times, but in the end it all comes off anyway ;-)
  4. Thank you so much FL! I have planned many of what you have suggested, which greatly puts me at ease. Love the 'conversation starter' and asking the other half if it's OK I play with their husband. I used to have penis mardi gras beads that were actually filled, wish I still had them, they would be perfect...lol Call me naive, but for what are you checking with the flashlight? Condoms? Warts? Oh, and should I bring my own towel for showering?
  5. I just re-read the original post and realized you were asking about Tabu, not TPA... lol My apologies for reviewing the wrong club. I have not been to Tabu in at least ten years, but I do know it's hugely popular in central MD.
  6. This coming Saturday I will be attending my first large (to me) house party, approx 60 guests. The hosts have these parties often and it is invite only with an established guest list. I will be attending with a single invited male, but not as a couple. I have seen the guest list and the ratio of guests are around a third each couples, single woman and single men. I have only done small hotel room parties, as well as clubs, etc., so this will be a new experience for me. My escort has given me some suggestions as to what to wear, but it's varied. I need some advice/suggestions, please. I'm not sure as to what to wear, nor how sexy I should dress. After two weeks of too much overthinking and driving myself crazy, I have decided to wear a cute mini dress (see image below), but I don't know what to wear underneath. I was thinking a gartered chemise with stockings, no panties (see images below). I plan to wear a trench coat from the car to the home to conceal my outfit as I walk through the neighborhood. I know it all comes off eventually, but will I be overdressed or should I be more casual? Should I also bring something to wear as a cover up when taking a break? One other question/concern....I am a straight, single female, how will others perceive me? Will I be considered competition for the single males by the female half of the couples? What is proper protocol and what should I anticipate? Is it similar to what you see in group porn amateur videos, just one massive pile of people? There will be private rooms and open play areas. All suggestions and advice are welcome...Thanks!
  7. Hi Lovemonkey, I have heard the crucible is strictly BDSM. It’s still a very new club so it’s pretty much a wait and see how they do. I was at TPA a couple of weekends ago after a ten-year hiatus. My partner, D, and I attended Friday evening (Newbie Night), the Saturday pool party and the Saturday evening event (Teeny Bikini...or something like that). Friday night's visit was D’s introduction to the lifestyle. Where to begin.... Friday evening’s visit was disappointing. We learned that evening the dress code is greatly relaxed during the summer. While D and I, as well as the other newbies, were dressed to impress, the patrons were dressed as if they were going to a ball game. Some men and women looked like bums. The majority of the single men creeped me out. Many were dressed like thugs, others resembled what I imagine a pervert looks like. Only two were a pleasure to have around. D and I had an agreement to not play with others that evening, so we took advantage of the room with the swing. Overall, we had a good time chatting and playing pool with another newbie couple. Members walked around with trays of Jello shooters. The crowd, while small, was lively. Saturday afternoon we attended the pool party. This was a first time visit for both of us, I was anticipating a Hedo II similarity. It's BYOB in plastic containers and they do a BBQ cookout. There were two or three couples putting on continuous shows poolside for nearly four hours. We did not see any other action; however, D and I enjoyed a private moment in the pool. We had been told there would be quite a bit poolside action later in the afternoon, nothing materialized, nor did we feel comfortable enough to get the party started. D now wishes we had done so...lol Saturday evening the crowd was more dressed up. However, we had a couple of issues that put a damper on our evening. While getting dressed at the hotel, I pulled a muscle in my back when bending over to deposit trash in the can (sucks getting older). After an hour of wait and see, I decided I could manage it. The other issue was hugely annoying. Earlier that day at the pool, D attracted the attention of a much older woman, who did not appeal to him in the slightest. She kept giving him the signals she was very much into him, but would not take the hint when D made it clear he was not playing with anyone except me that evening. When she, her husband and their entourage showed up that evening, they made every effort to try and get us to play with them. D and I tried using my back pain and his newbie, only playing with me status, as a deterrent, but they just wouldn’t quit. We were dodging them all evening, but they were persistent. We finally had enough and left. Overall, IMO nothing much has really changed, except upgrades to a couple of rooms. The crowds were small, the members were the same, just ten years older, the same cliques, same music and the food was worse than I recall, with meager offerings (the pizza stunk so bad I nearly gagged). I recall toiletries such as hairspray, deodorant, etc., being available in the ladies’ room years past, this time all they had to offer was mouthwash. Oh, and the room we played in was missing toiletries, forcing me to use other means to clean up after we were done. I hope this helps you a bit. You should go, your experience could be very different than ours. I think now that schools are back in session and vacations are over, the crowd and vibe will improve. We are thinking about going to their Halloween party.
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