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  • Birthday 03/16/1973

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  1. Curious, what’s the “other” place you found? BTW, if you haven’t yet, try signing up on Kasidie. They announce parties and clubs all the time.
  2. I actually like my wife to finish guys orally. She likes seeing their pleasure, and I like watching. For those who responded, does “completion” mean swallowing, or pulling it out at the last second?
  3. We went out with a couple we have been friends with for a few years. My wife is good at brining “things” up in a non awkward way. The female side of the couple was VERY interested and asking a lot of questions. This does not guarantee she wants to take the next step and actually participate. It may be more of that interest like wanting so see a dead body at the side of the road type of thing. Nevertheless, the male was engaged but more listening and letting out a slight chuckle now and then. So, not disinterested, but much less than the female. So in this situation, when one side is clearly interested, the other unknown, what would be a good next step?
  4. Wow, what an awesome time! Sounds like the ideal way to meet another couple, become friends, become comfortable and take the steps you did to end up in that swinging situation.
  5. As a swinger, do you find yourself too open during conversation with others you assume are vanilla? For example latching on to certain jokes about sexy topics and taking the joke/conversation further to see how they react? It’s kind of risky, and it seems like most people are all talk/joke in the end and you end up looking or feeling awkward.
  6. I am totally onboard with this concept. Although we have looked for couples,l and that I would participate, I tell my wife that my biggest turn on is watching her being pleasured and giving pleasure to another man.
  7. My wife and I share the same bday in March and I was also thinking about an erotic gift for her, or one that we can both enjoy together. The boudoir shoot is a little too soft for us, so any suggestions are welcomed! Thanks!
  8. I went through a phase where girls in porn would shave bare, and so I liked my girlfriends to be bare, as that was the time I first got heavy into sex as a young guy transitioning from porn and masturbation into real sex. For a while that was my preference, but then I took a turn back to really liking bush, as it feels more natural and sexy again, although, I won't turn down a bare woman now. My wife now does not like bush however, but I am okay with that when we play.
  9. Thanks everyone for the replies. I did try to edit the post to keep it specific to swallowing because I later found a few other threads on the kissing rule and didn't want to keep repeating that topic. Sorry about that, but your responses are appreciated. As suspected, it is situational and varies based on preference and mood/situations. Makes sense. It's not that we will not play with the couple because of the rule. It's just kind of a turn off hearing that there are rules, and we may prefer to play with another couple given there is a choice. Otherwise, we may still play with them and just see where it goes. Like someone said, we also don't want to pass up some great sex and other activities because of that.
  10. We know a couple who we have been friends with and recently found out they are into the lifestyle. But they have a rule that she doesn't swallow. My wife likes swallowing and it helps to turn her on. We haven't played with this couple, but my wife is not really interested already knowing that they have this rule. We realize swallowing is intimate, but that's what makes it a turn on for both of us. I love to see her swallow another man's cum. We don't play with random couples we don't know, but when we do, we like to be able to have the wives swallow the other man's cum or snowball it. Is this a common rule, or is it situational?
  11. Hello all, in the past my wife and I had some experience in the lifestyle. We stopped 14 years ago and had two kids. Both kids were C-section, she has gained some weight, and feels her ass is saggy now. We have talked about getting back into it and talk explicitly about the different scenarios when we are having sex and it is so hot. However, she is reluctant to take action because of her body issues now. I always sincerely tell her how good she looks but she says I am biased because I am her husband. I am not pushing it at his point, but want to keep the subject on the table in hopes that she reaches a point where she feels comfortable with her body on her own. It seems like time has gotten to us. We are in our 40s and I feel we are still very viable candidates but we're not getting any younger. We used to go to parties where she could walk around in lingerie. Now she would not do that and I suggested meeting couples more discreetly and avoiding the party scene but she still feels uncomfortable. I get it and I am not pressuring her, but continue to tell her how good she looks while remaining objective to the changes in her body and not trying to pretend they are not there. I have taken action to exercise and stay at least trim, but it is up to her to do something about it. Not sure what I am after here, but I feel as if it is a fantasy at this point and that it will never happen. Has this happened to anyone?
  12. If you find one let us know please. We live in Long Beach and just not driving to FA again or anywhere else that is an hour away.
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