There is a couple who wanted me and my husband to play with them and I just didn't click with him. They have a more open marriage than us and they will play separately with other singles, others who play separate, etc. Well even tho I have made it known I don't want to play with her husband she still texts mine and I don't like it. I feel it's very disrespectful and I feel just as disrespected by my husband because he doesn't tell me they text I have just seen it on his phone when he's had it open showing me something else. It's not that he's deleting or hiding it but he's not coming out and saying hey so and so texted me and this is what was said.