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Heavenlyass

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About Heavenlyass

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 01/15/1983

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    Female/m
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    LA
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    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. So we have been together 4 yrs I know he loves me but I just don't see how it is ok in any three way relationship that the husband would make the girl cum but not his wife I tried talking to him and he apologized but said that I didn't make him cum either n said that he just thought I wanted some bi time and wanted to let me play with her I don't think he can relate or grasp why it hurt me He just isn't seeing my point so I dropped it n just wanted to move on than he brings it up again days later after we talked I told him the main thing is it bothered me that he made her cum and not me n his response was she just cums easier I think we're at a standstill But I do believe he wouldn't make this mistake again But honestly does anyone have a threesome with thier wife n another girl n not make sure thier wife cums??? Anyone
  2. I would consider trying again if I liked the guy or was attracted to him but I'm not really feeling it I'm beginning to struggle with this lifestyle more and more I really enjoy the idea of it I just fear that my husband is to one track mind for this to be successful I think he gets carried away and forget about me and my feelings For a follow up one night my hubby and I were getting it on I was dressed like a naughty school girl n riding him we had taken a break for a sec and he got a text message from the guy Apparently the guy had texted him early and asked what we were doing n the hubby had said we were about to get t on and the guy asked if his wife could join us cause he was at work and would love pics and wanted pics of the wife going down on me ( she never played with a girl) So the hubby asked me if it was ok if she came over ( I didn't want her to come over we were having a good time already it was a work night it was 1030pm and we always said we wouldn't play with others in our bed) but he was very eager n I could tell by his tone he wanted it bad so I said yes he got so excited So she came over as soon as the door was closed he was making out with her He kissed me to than I kissed her he touched my Pusey a little than started fingering her grabi her n grinding her it was all ok at first we went to the room we were all kissing n touching than she started to lick me and he licked her that was all fine n fun But after I came she never touched my pussy again barely payed attention to me and I had to initiate any interaction with her Well ok I just think she did it cause her husband told her to so ok she's not bi no biggie But my husband kept playing with mostly her she was the center of attention I licked her made her cum n he did fuck me from behind for a few minutes but after she came he didn't really play with me again After that he fingered and licked her than he started fucking her mouth so I was just there n decided to try to be involved so I took out a wand n made her cum Than he fingered n licked her again He must have made her cum 4 times by now n she was breathing heavy n got up to leave I was like yay now I can have my husband n get some attention her and I went to the living room and she got dressed we hugged n than she was like oh let me say good by to him So she walked over to the room to say good by they started making out saying it was fun etc The goodby was taking to long so I said I'll brb I went to get water I came back n they were naked n she was sucking him off ( we have a rule we don't play alone, it's his rule that he requested) I was fuming at this point I walked away to cool off sat on the couch for a sec Than came back n she was still going at it Than he asked if we could all fuck I said ok so he pulls out a condom n starts fucking her missionary he says kiss me so I do I stopped for a sec to look at the situation than flips her n fucks her in a different position n I just get to sit thier and watch she starts screaming n coming than he cumS And than she sits up like we're done n starts chatting While I sit thier unsatisfied thinking this B just had the time of her life was the center of attention in my bed I made her come multiple times n my husband probably made her cum 4-5 times He made me cum 0 times he licked me 0 times Than she left n he was like what's wrong I told him I felt ignored n he said sorry I thought u wanted to play with her and have ur bi time so wanted to let you I told him that wasn't ok that he should have played with me toon he just said sorry Than I said when she got up to leave why didn't he let her leave why did they go at it again N he said she wanted to Than I asked why didn't he fuck me to why did he only fuck her and he said he wanted to fuck her so she would leave n he could play with me I know he felt bad but I don't understand how he could play with basically only her make her cum so many times and not think to try to make me cum even once Not think to make sure I was getting pleased I really felt he put in a huge effort to make sure she had a great time n he forgot about me I felt at that moment he wanted her more than me And I can't stop thinking about that now every time he tells me thier isn't anyone he wants more than me I don't believe it I know he loves me and wants me n wants to be with me we have an amazing sex life she is so devoted to me when others aren't with us in the bedroom But I think when sex with others starts happening the kinkyness with other people is the most important thing at that time n he forgets about me and my feeling I'm really struggling to get past this and to trust that he won't do this again How can I get past this?? Please help I haven't been able to sleep and I can't stop thinking about this
  3. Thank You so much for the reply I appreciate everyone's advice!!!
  4. I'm fine with one partner having more fun But if one of us didn't enjoy it at all in my opinion thier is no point in playing with that couple again It's just for fun so if it isn't fun I don't wanna do it
  5. I'm not saying I expect to have the same thing I have with my husband because I don't I understand that he knows me and knows what I like so I'm not expecting that but I at least expect it to be good otherwise why should I bother I'm just upset that after I told him I didn't enjoy myself he even still wants to mess with them I just feel like he's being a little self-centered and not considering my feelings Am I right to be upset about this or should I just get over it Because if he told me he didn't enjoy an experience with a couple I wouldn't ask to play with them again but that's just me He is also not very understanding of my need to have some kind of attraction to the person I play with either mentally or physically attractive and he says that it's just for fun it's just an experience and that that shouldn't matter that much I just don't know if I could enjoy an experience if there wasn't some kind of attraction
  6. So my husband and I have played with a few couples the latest couple he met on an sls website and talked to them before he told me about it He said they seemed nice, we met in person and yes they were nice but I just wasn't attracted to them and we have nothing in common, I told him I wasn't feeling them n he seemed sad. So against my better judgment I agreed to play with them cause he really wanted to. It was probably the worst sex I've ever had he went down on me and that was decent but when he started to fuck me I could barely tell he was inside me and it was literally over in a couple minutes he jumped up n came back n put on a new condone n attempted to try again and it wasn't working Besides that horrible sex this couple is very vanilla besides the swinging and I don't even know if they have a good sex life between them, (my husband and I are into hard core kink) the next day they were already askin if we could meet them again that night or if not when would be the soonest we could meet them, I told my husband the sec was horrible for me and I didn't enjoy myself he says they guy was probably just to excited cause I'm so much younger and hotter than his wife My husband had a great time and wants to meet them again but it was horrible for me and I didn't enjoy the lame sex I got and getting to look over at my husband pounding the shit out of the other woman exactly how I love to get fucked Now my husband wants to play with them again Should I be upset that he wants to play with a couple that I didn't enjoy being with Or should I just let it go and try again and hope it's better next time I'm very open about sex and can easily have sex with someone n it mean nothing and I forget about it the next day but this guy was horrible in bed And than after was telling me how amazing I am And I'm just thinking he has no idea I didn't even get a chance to do anything Please help
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