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CinnamonSwirl

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About CinnamonSwirl

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 02/04/1978

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    IN
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    CinnamonSwirl7863
  1. Thank you NJbm for your advice. Hopefully we may try again down the road.
  2. Luvin, no worries thank you for the sound advice. Wsb421, your situation is spot on with ours. Wornsilver and Alura, thanks for sharing your wisdom. We will continue to keep our communication open and see how things progress. I am fine if we don't go any further and fine if it does.
  3. Alura,thank you so much for your advice and encouragement! Wow, Luvin Eye Full what a stern rebuke. Of course I know that my marriage is the most important thing and I would never do anything to hurt that or my husband! I do understand his concerns and that is why we as a couple are not swinging. I do know that he feels my disappointment. Crushed was probably too strong of a word I will own that but at the time it was all fresh. To answer your question about things not going well we had one couple turn out to be just a man, a man that did not tell his wife about us and a bi male poising as a straight male. Anyway thanks for your advice and I will head your warning of not moving forward.
  4. Hi all. My husband and I have been in the LS for about 7 months. Had some things not go as planned but got right back on the horse. Met this great couple that we did soft swap with. Set up a second date with the intention of full swap. Husband and I were both comfortable and excited or so I thought. Days before we were to meet my husband came to me and said he no longer wanted to do this lifestyle and gave me his reasons which I understood. He was scared of this changing us, of the unknown or us getting hurt. I could go on and on. Which we had discussed all of this prior to making the leap. I understand things change and this can be such a roller coaster ride at the beginning. I am so surprised at how crushed I fell. I was really looking forward to being with this couple. However; I do not know how to deal with the desire to still experience this. I feel like someone gave me a chocolate bar and right as I was putting it in my mouth it fell into the dirt. I am not sure how to just turn this off and be okay with it.
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