I have just noticed this thread and I have possible insight.
First of all In our relationship I have been designated to seeker. Meaning I compose adds, answer email reach out to prospective people.
I soon discovered that people do not read the profiles, tons wont get back to you.
So coming up with a new and interesting way to reach out for every contact is mind numbing. Now I could come up with a copy and paste reply but I feel like a phony.
So at some point you become a broken man, lol and your like
Fuck it, "heres my dick madam".
Not excusing just trying to see illuminate one possible path to becoming a serial dickpicker