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  • Birthday 01/12/1983

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    Denver, CO
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  1. Somehow, I'm not as hung up on the cheating anymore as I am about her desire to fuck someone other than me. Destroys my confidence when I think she desires a superior lover. The guy she found (but has never slept with) she had been sexting with and such at the same time that she was cheating on me. Naturally I would say that to start out opening our marriage, it would make sense on paper to eliminate this guy from the running purely because of the painful association he represents to the time of our relationship when my wife was unfaithful. Problem is, it seems he's damn near perfect for her, and is very adamantly opposed to anything serious. This makes me feel a bit better as he's unlikely to attempt to woo my wife away from me, but it still messes with me that he's associated with the infidelity of my wife. She has said many times that the desire is there, but that she will never act on it if I'm not comfortable, promising me that she'll work with me on whatever I'm comfortable with. To me it seems like the bridge is out ahead, and we need to deal with it, so I keep pushing ahead to try to get comfortable with it and rip the band aid off. How do you all typically deal with a spouse desiring/fucking someone that has a superior body without feeling inadequate and completely losing confidence?
  2. My wife found her man on Craigslist. Unfortunately it was behind my back 2 years ago, and she just told me about him along with some cheating she had done in a big tell-all about 2 months ago. I've been looking on things like SeekingArrangement, Tinder, etc, but I just don't seem to get excited about sex for sex sake. I told my wife that the only person I really ever fantasize about is her best friend from high school, and she told her about it, and she's said she's cool with it. I'm apparently complicated, and I like there to be some emotion along with my sex, and am just not sure I feel totally comfortable in completely casual sex. Am I strange?
  3. My wife found a dude that has a very large cock, and he's very into her large labia. She's always felt she's not tight enough, and this guy is so big he can't fit into most girls, so it's kind of a fantasy for both of them. My wife has requested an open relationship for years, and now I'm warming to it, but am feeling lonely and alone as I can't really find an equivalent fantasy of my own. I'm a bit jealous of her situation as it really turns me on to think of a girl wanting my body specifically, but seeing as I'm pretty average body-wise, I don't see how that'll ever happen. I also have a big labia fetish, but my wife satisfies that, so just finding another girl with big labia isn't exactly something novel. Just plain having sex with someone other than my wife doesn't really excite me as I am madly in love with my wife, she's amazing in bed, and anything I desire she helps me fulfill. I don't mind her having her fantasy, it actually turns me on, but I'm finding myself jealous that she's getting everything she desires and I can't find anything that excites me. Am I just being whiny? Should I just go fuck someone? Please help...
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