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SimplyUs

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SimplyUs last won the day on July 16 2017

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About SimplyUs

  • Rank
    Eyes Wide Open
  • Birthday 01/28/1974

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Canton, OH
  • Interests
    motorcycles, learning new things, people,
  • Swinging Experience
    5+ years, just getting back in after 10 year hiatus.
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    SimplyBandC
  • Favorite Club(s)
    The Body Shop, Canton

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  1. Unfortunately, we forget that not all people really know how to behave. For what ever the reason, it just isn't there. Very admirable that you have such a wonderful attribute to your character. It's almost mythical to possess a trait such as tact. I am sorry that you felt the sting of such an ugly remark. Seems as if you made out like a bandit in the end. From the reaction of the other couple, I would dare to say it wouldn't have been everything you wanted it to be anyways. Keep your chin up.
  2. There is a huge difference between being a brute and being honest. It's not sugar coating to practice a modicum of tact.
  3. Thanks, I will definitely makes some adjustments. You made my day with the compliment.
  4. Just an update. We've talked and Sun and Moon you hit it on the head. What I've learned from this is he feels more than I give him credit for. We've adjusted our play rules and are choosing to grow from this. thanks everyone for your input. It is greatly appreciated.
  5. Thanks I will check them out. All of ours are recent within one month. I just want to stand out from the rest but who doesn't right?!?
  6. During a play night the gentleman I was engaging screamed out "Damn (insert hubbies name), with a *&$%$ like this I would never share her". We were both caught off guard but now we chuckle about it. I've had more tasteful compliments but this one I'll never forget.
  7. I have already asked for feedback on our profile but I have a question related to photos. Actually, I am asking for suggestions on great ways to take eye catching and thought provoking photos. What types of photos seem to get the best responses? Is it quantity or quality? This online venture has changed so much versus how it was in the past. My opinion is that photos most often can be deceiving in multiple directions. Thanks for the feedback in advance.
  8. Unfortunately it happens. It's happened to me as well. It's not her by any means. When it happened to me, I assured the gentleman that he would have fun regardless. Asked him how I could make him relax and kept it light. In no time, it wasn't a problem anymore. It's a psychological issue more than anything. I am sure that has been said already. Sometimes our bodies just don't behave the way we'd like them to. Don't let it worry you sugar. I know, so much easier said than done.
  9. I'm curious if our profile might be running folks off. Would love some constructive criticism. We are using SLS and our profile name is SimplyBandC. Thanks in advance.
  10. I didn't think of it that way. In the moment, he seemed really into it and it never crossed my mind that he might regret it. I thought the fault was with me some how. I haven't brought it up again since Sunday. I did find out that he NEVER wants to play alone again. He has asked that I be in the room if a situation ever arises again and he reminded me his intention was to play together. Only time will tell. And like you said, giving it time to heal is best. Thank you for your pearls of wisdom and thank you to all the others who offered their voice. Sometimes it's hard to find perspective, especially when you are confused yourself.
  11. No this is the first time he has acted this way. I tried to talk to him but it just started a fight. We had made an agreement prior to his playtime that we would have our playtime afterwards. So now I am finding myself very scared and confused. In 16 years this is a first for us.
  12. We are not new to swinging but the other night brought to us a situation I never expected. We went to a club this past weekend and I thought we had a blast. While there he hooked up with the wife of a couple we knew pretty well. She doesn't play with women and I understand that. Long story short the two of them went off and had their moment. I have no problems with the events of the night at all. I do have a problem with the fact that he promised to make sure I had mine that evening as well. That was the agreement. He is totally ignoring me. Won't engage or touch me sensually or sexually at all. He actually being distant and mean. I'm worried something happened. I don't like this feeling. He's never made me feel this way before. He's breaking our number one rule of communication. I'm dying inside and feel so betrayed.
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