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KuriousKhajit

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  • Birthday 02/20/1991

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    Michigan
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  1. Hey, all! Our first house party is this weekend! Ahhh! So excited. However. We are a bit lost. With one exception, every couple we have invited will know at least one couple besides us. Several couples are shy around new people, but for the vast majority, everyone else invited are swinging veterans who have known each other for ages. (We stumbled into their network via mutual friends, and our friends said they were totally chill with us inviting the gang to our place this time to give them a break). We have noticed that everyone tends to congregate in the kitchen and talk, and actually getting things going takes a while. I had the idea of a sexy questionnaire (favorite place to be touched, something on your fantasy bucket list, etc) and the three people with the most completed questionnaires get prizes. (Plus we have naked twister and naughty board games). Is the questionnaire idea trying too hard for guests who already know each other? Is it okay as long as none of the questions are standard/boring? If you think we should avoid it, what sort of game would you suggest to heat things up and get people out of the kitchen? Fingers crossed for success! - Excited Wife
  2. Well.....since you asked so nicely and called me a good girl.... I apologize for the darkness. Thanks for your help!
  3. Hello all, I went to see a movie today by myself, and I was the only one in the theater. Since I didn't have any other attendees, I figured I'd keep my phone on and text with my husband (he's away on a business trip). He playfully suggested that I take a couple nude photos of myself, and I thought "challenge accepted!" Took off my bra, lifted up my shirt, snap snap, send! Now that I'm out of the theater, though, I'm wondering if I did something stupid. I assume there are security cameras in there, and since I was the only one in that theater and paid for my ticket with a credit card, could they track me down and charge me with public indecency?!? I'm probably overreacting, but I'm normally not an exhibitionist in public so I have no idea how these things go! Thanks...
  4. Hey all! Welp, we're stuck in a situation that makes us feel like we're in highschool all over again. Two situations, actually! Bear with me here as I describe. We're friends with Couple 1, who are longtime swingers and awesome people. Completely wonderful friendship. They threw a private swinger's party, which we gladly attended. While we were there, we met Couple 2, who looked cute and seemed fun. (And how bad could it be if Couple 1 likes them, right?). We played with them, had a pretty good time, exchanged kik profiles. Husband is border-line physically appealing to me, but on the right side of the border. Bring in Couple 3, with whom we get along great. In the weeks to follow, we get some unsolicited real-time photos from Couple 2, and the contents of the photos show that they're playing with Couple 3. We think "wait, cool! You all know each other!" and send a flirty message to Couple 2 & 3, basically saying "have fun! We'll be thinking of you" Couple 3 tells us, later, that they're chagrined and that Couple 2 has been become known for outing other couples - admittedly, only those who are already in the lifestyle - and that they're going to start keeping their distances from Couple 2 after this. Couple 1 - whom they ALSO know, as we discovered when we attended a second party - also privately tells us that Couple 2 has ticked off some of their other friends and will be phased out of parties. Couple 2-Wife is now trying to get pregnant, but still playing with other couples/men. Couple 2-Husband is now ravening after me like a a starving wolf in the dead of winter if you laid out a dead cow in front of it. Hubby and I are not impressed by this new twist in his personality, we're disappointed that Husband can't also full-swap with Couple-2-wife and not feel worried, and we're super worried about their ability to be discrete. Lastly - and most simply - while we were at the last party, we also met Couple 4. Couple 4-Wife is super HWP, hilarious, and generally our cup of tea. Couple 4-Husband is charming, respectful, and....very, very obese. Couple 4 propositioned us (again, very courteously), and we declined that night because we were on our way out, and then vaguely declined their invitations following since they live two hours away and we rarely check our S.L.S profile). We will be attending another one of Couple 1's parties along with Couple 4 on in two weeks, as it turns out, and I'm nervous about how that will play out. So here are our questions: 1. Simplest: How do we deal with Couple 4(dissimilar wife and husband) at Couple 1's parties without actually hurting their feelings, but still swapping with others at parties? Is there any way for my husband to play with the wife where I don't have to reciprocate with the husband? 2. How do we distance ourselves from Couple 2 when we've already slept with them, and there is a strong possibility they will hear from other people in Couple 1's network that we're still happily swinging with others? We've both "taken one for the team" in the past, and it really put a lot of stress on our relationship. We LOVE playing with Couple 1 and Couple 3 because everything is in balance and we click. Neither of us wants to get back into uncomfortable drama. Swinging should ultimately be fun, right? Please help! We're trying to move forwards in a constructive way that doesn't burn any bridges. Cheers, Kurious
  5. Hello all, I have a growing problem. Let me set the context. My husband is a FANTASTIC lover, in bed and out. He stresses the importance of communication, is eager to make corrections/receive instruction, etc etc. We normally have sex 2-3x per day, more on the weekend. However, over the past several months, my husband's job has also gotten more stressful, and so his sex drive is increasingly erratic. It's gotten to the point where over the past two weeks, we've had sex 3 times, and each time he has rubbed my clit aggressively for five seconds, and when I've squirmed away, inserted himself, thrust for about two minutes, then come, thank me with gratitude, and fall asleep. The rest of the time, he's been holed up in his office room with his computer watching youtube gaming walkthroughs. No cuddles, no movie-watching, no showers together. No housework communal chore-doing or cooking, either. I literally feel like the hired maid whose contract stipulates come-hole freedoms as required. (I, myself, have a full-time job and have been super stressed about it, and despite asking multiple times for a back-rub or something, he just says "Maybe some other time.") The tipping point was when that happened today on his vacation-Friday day. I had asked him to "move slowly," partially because he's quite well-endowed, there was no foreplay, it was super unexpected, and the result was I had to adjust. He waited until I nudged against him, then started to aggressively pound me until he came. I didn't come. I have MULTIPLE O's. I didn't come once. I can't remember the last time I came with him. Add all this to the fact that we're going to be going to our first-ever house party tomorrow, hosted by some friends. The guest list looks like we'll be attracted to everyone there. We've been excited for a while, and talking about it with our hosts causes him to light up like nothing else will recently. I don't know what to do. I don't know whether to wait quietly for the stress to decrease and have whatever happens tomorrow happen, to have a chat with him tonight and let him know (in constructive terms, of course) that I feel abandoned and taken for granted in bed and that I'm CRAZY STUPID HORNY AND I FEEL AWKWARD MASTURBATING IMMEDIATELY AFTER HE'S COME IN 5 SECONDS, and that I want to reconnect before we play tomorrow... or what. I only know I feel resentful, blue-ovary'd, lonely, and disinclined to fuck him when he's disinclined to remember that my pleasure is not automatic. Thoughts?..... ~ Lonely AND horny in not-Seattle.
  6. Hi all, My husband and I started swinging a couple years ago and have been only with three married/engaged couples, two of whom had kids. We've been recently approached by a couple who are - well, not a couple. They're friends with benefits: she has 3 kids (not with him), and he's just apparently along for the ride. We've been talking over kik. I gotta say....some of my alarm bells are going off. 1: She doesn't seem to be as enthusiastic (read: crass, kinky, "send booty pix!") as he does. (AN: He's also boasted that she's a squirter. . . . 5 times and counting. Which has started to seem a bit - forgive me - highschool-ish). 2: He hasn't been forthright about some details. (Aka, when describing her, he appears to have fudged some details about her physical stats). Including.... 3: He didn't tell us that they were FWB -- it was her, as we were discussing getting together for a coffee. She was under the assumption that he had told us. 4: Neither of them asked us about past health, sexual practices, etc, and while he's done MFM before, she hasn't volunteered any similar experience. In fact (though not required) it's been only in the past couple months that she's thought about this stuff. 5: Neither of them are willing to host, and are prepared to hop into (our) bed with us, well, tonight if allowed. We've been in drama-filled situations before, and frankly, we don't want any more. I'm also HYPER-nervous about health, and have felt more secure playing with couples who were married, knowing that they at least had some responsibility to each other if not to us, to practice safe sexual practices. We've sworn off single guys for the above reasons and more, and are only marginally interested in single females. My husband sees ZERO problems with this couple. Am I making a mountain out of a mole hill, here? Do you think this couple ought to be avoided? Why/why not? Thanks in advance, KuriousKhajit
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