So....my wife and I have had a few encounters with some close friends. We are all very cool outside of the LS. Over a year of encounters, but almost each time, wife has been on her period so she has been understandably reluctant. She has gone soft swap, and her friend and I have gone full swap, with the encouragement of her and her friend's husband. We all meet regularly with no expectations. But if something happens, it does...again, with the encouragement of her and her friend's husband. I am not jealous, and want her to have fun too, and also her friend's husband...I don't want it one sided...but, while my wife seems ok with me and her friend being full swap, I want her to feel comfortable going full swap as well. I think she just needs a little nudge. Any suggestions?
Btw, we both, them and us, have very strong relationships and we all speak openly about it all. I just want her to feel at ease.