musicman1848

Probably the best advice I could have asked for. Never move faster than the slowest member. Thank you for your reply. It is close to what her friend said to me just a few days ago.

Thanks for the advice. We have talked about it at length. I have even expressed that I want her to have enjoyment as well. Made it clear that not only will I not be jealous, but I think it would be exciting for her to go all the way...even that maybe she might like something about it that I might not be able to provide. But I still think she is reserved. She was raised very conservative so I am surprised she has been so open with ensuring I am having pleasure. I'm thinking that maybe I should suggest we play in the same room but stay spouse exclusive for her to gain confidence and not feel pressure. Again. We talk about everything...there are no secrets and I think this is why we all have such strong relationships together and with each other. Everything considered, might this be a good step?

Thanks. Any way you could clarify the last sentence? New to all of this.

So....my wife and I have had a few encounters with some close friends. We are all very cool outside of the LS. Over a year of encounters, but almost each time, wife has been on her period so she has been understandably reluctant. She has gone soft swap, and her friend and I have gone full swap, with the encouragement of her and her friend's husband. We all meet regularly with no expectations. But if something happens, it does...again, with the encouragement of her and her friend's husband. I am not jealous, and want her to have fun too, and also her friend's husband...I don't want it one sided...but, while my wife seems ok with me and her friend being full swap, I want her to feel comfortable going full swap as well. I think she just needs a little nudge. Any suggestions? Btw, we both, them and us, have very strong relationships and we all speak openly about it all. I just want her to feel at ease.