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  1. Lucky you! I’d be interested in a follow up. Sounds like her husband went all in quick however she was a bit hesitant. I’m curious how the other couple faired with each other the morning after.
  2. I think this is great! One of the reason I think we have had zero issues between us is that we keep our play completely spontaneous. We have zero emotional bond before and after our play time with others. Hell, most of the times we can't remember names! The after glow last a few days, weeks it is really hot! I might have to open things up to house parties. But that means we would have to know more people. Double edge sword...
  3. Perhaps he had some anxiety? As I posted before I refrain from: porn, masterbation, five days before a planned encounter. Another helpful tool are the long lasting ED medications. Yes, I'm one of those that uses the Indian pharmacies and thus far has had great success. But purchase at your risk if you go down that road. The other behavior change I adopted is controlling my alcohol intake. If drinking make sure to drink plenty of water between drinks. Lastly, the wife and I always start with each other. We both know each other's bodies and how to get our energy going. Then we swap into other activities. Just some suggestions, as said before, sometimes one partner has more fun than the other. Don't feel guilty for that. Good lesson and now you have some great advice from the replies going forward.
  4. Blood volume, ok that is funny. Hope you don't mind me using your material! We have become much more liberal. We still cling to being spontaneous. All this effort to find "Like minded individuals" via other media's can be time consuming and exhausting. Don't get me wrong, we still have had some outstanding experiences in the club scene. Being able to immediately (see, hear, look) at potential potentials is better than the online shenanigans. My opinion. What happens at the club stays at the club!
  5. Or am I just getting cynical? I've been lurking the board and have enjoyed the conversations and useful information. Wife and I have been enjoying the lifestyle off and on for ten years. Between kids and other obligations, finding time for adult fun is often difficult. We both agreed to take one day out of a month to enjoy the clubs. Last night we went to a club in Houston and was quite disappointed. Although lately we have witnessed some of these behaviors in New Orleans, Dallas and Austin. 1. Since when is it ok to open a closed door to a private room? Single men, I'm talking to you. Often times couples need "preparation time". Myself, I'm not young anyone so a warm up period of the nether regions is required. Same can be said for the women. Wait for the door to open. Don't diminish a slim chance you might have. 2. Touching others without permission? Voyeurs like to watch and some like to be watch. Don't ruin it for everyone. Wait for some type of positive signal before taking such liberties. 3. What is going on with the LOUD conversation not related to the situation at hand? VIP areas and private rooms or connecting hallways not the proper place for banter. Take it to the common areas! 4. If you enter a play area or accept a invite, men--- be ready to play! I know that hydraulics fail at times. However seems the wife and I have been batting below .500 past couple months with other men. Awkward for everyone! Stop masturbating a few days, get some ED pills, stop watching porn for a week, etc (not judging, I've had to take this advise myself) Also, if you are in the meet and greet area and haven't talked to your significant other in an hour, why are you in the club? If you don't talk to each other, no one will approach you for a conversation. This is how perceived "cliques" get started. People want to mingle and talk to each other. If an open effort is not made, you won't meet anyone. Sorry for the rant. We are extremely busy. The few opportunities we have at play seemed ambushed in one way or the other the past few months by others lack of consideration. Off my soap box, just had to get this off my chest.
  6. Just quietly throwing this out there. In our play she has control of everything. PERIOD If my wife says no, then that's it. But there has been times when she has had for fun than I. Other times I have more fun than her. The after glow sex is amazing for a week or so. But we play perhaps once a month to supplement our sex lives.
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