The wife and i are still new to the whole lifestyle. We have only been with one couple but we've played 4 times.
After the second time we decided we would full swap if it came to that, well it did and the other guy couldn't get it up. So we stopped. If one doesn't play neither will play. Again on the fourth time he still couldn't get it up. So again everything came to a halt.
My wife is worried its her and I keep trying to reassure her it is not. I would like some people that have been at this for a while to give her some encouragement. Also I've let her know that my cock is hers and in any situation she can have it. Other than that we have been enjoying our selves and our new adventures.
Thanks,