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  • Birthday 12/13/1966

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    San Antonio TX
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    1 year
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  1. not yet :(.......but watched 3 guys so far eat and finger her pussy.....those were awesome
  2. Yes it was the alcohol and yes it was nerves. Alcohol is not good for erections and nerves like "is he bigger than me", "will I please the other woman", "will my wife have more fun with him than me"......all this plays into the situation......it happened to me on my first MFM with a couple, so exited and nervous I couldn't get it up Like NC_Seniors said, get back on the horse! Don't give up. I set up a MFM erotic massage for my wife and it worked out great. Might want to think of something like that to get comfortable with another guy there. Check out my post I wrote on our experience. My wife had emotions on the experience but we worked them out.....remember, communication is vital.
  3. Gold, thank you so much! Good point on the religion thing! She is hispanic and raised Catholic. Yes I was going to approach it again after Christmas. I’ve made sure to be extra loving and attentive to make sure she knows my love has NOT changed.....thanks again!!!
  4. Numex, thank you for the advice. I told her that she is in control of what happens.....and doesn’t happen. Also I’ve been extremely attentive and loving since it happened in the hopes that she realizes she did nothing wrong and I love her. Trying to make sure we just take baby steps.....thanks again!!
  5. Hey all, Well I need some insight from the ladies. My wife and I have played at a few clubs but just let others watch as I totally respect her boundaries. Each time we went she got so wet when we had sex in front of others but she was still shy looking at people. Well we were talking about if she would feel more comfortable if we chose a guy to watch us in a hotel. Then I asked what about an erotic massage from me and another guy.....she said she thought she could do that. Well last month we took that next step and did the soft swing. We invited another guy to join us in a hotel and gave her an erotic massage. The guy was so respectful and we NEVER got rough. When we flipped her over, she got so wet when both of us gave her oral and fingered her. We made her have the most intense orgasm I've EVER seen her have. She almost fell off the table it was so intense. Then just me and my wife had sex in front of the other guy. Oh, she was blindfolded the entire time and never saw the other guy in order to make her more comfortable and avoid embarrassment. The thing is, after he left and I took off the blindfold she started to cry. I asked her why and she asked why I didn't look at her as a slut now.....WHAT!? I assured her I loved her immensely and I would never see her that way. My question is, she got so wet and into it but cried after.....do you think she felt guilty for enjoying it so much? Or do you think it was too much for her? I try and talk with her but it seems like she's scared to talk. I guess I'm confused.....did any of you feel that way after the first time? I'm hoping that it's normal.....kind of like loosing your virginity......She said she enjoyed it and wants to do it again in a few months but the crying thing has me concerned. Any advice or how you felt the first time would help......thanks.
  6. It finally happened! My wife and I have been to a few swinger clubs, but she only allowed people to watch never touch, this went on for a few years. We were talking and I was explaining the way we should look at is that adding another guy is like me using her toys on her, use it, have fun then put it away. I asked her how about an erotic massage in a nice hotel by me and another guy? To my surprise and excitement, she said she thinks she could do that! My wife is a 42 yr old Colombian with large man-made C cups, thin waist and a med/lg ass. She only had 4 lovers in her past and all of them just did vanilla sex. Boy did I expand her world when we got married LOL! She is absolutely beautiful with a heart of gold, so I wanted to make sure this was amazing but most of all safe. I came up with limits so she would feel comfortable and safe. First, she would be on the massage table, when he came in and she would be blindfolded as she gets embarrassed easily. Second, the guy would not talk unless asked something by me or her. Third, no rough stuff, just gentle massage. I would allow oral and fingering on her by him but oral on him only if she initiated it. Fourth, I told her at the end after we make her cum, I would ask her Green light, Yellow light or Red light? Green would be to continue with sex from both of us, yellow is sex with me only but he can watch and touch, and Red was thank you but he leaves as I want only my husband now. Lastly, I would meet with the guy before the massage and if I felt the slightest hesitation, I would call it off. She liked the rules. I then started looking when “S” PM’d me. He said he was flying into San Antonio on business and was willing to help. We PM’d back and forth while giving me advice as he said he had helped others get introduced into the LS. He answered every question I had so we made plans to meet when he landed and give the massage to my wife later that evening (only time we both had before he returned home). When I met him a few hours prior to the massage he was so polite that my anxiety level went to zero. We again went over the wife’s limits I came up with and he had no problem with any of them. My wife was blindfolded and on the massage table with a towel over her ass when he arrived. He immediately went to the restroom and undressed and washed his hands. When he came out, massage music was playing, and I had those battery powered candles lighting the room. To make her comfortable with another man’s hands on her we started with her neck and back. After about 10 minutes we moved the towel covering her ass and we began to massage her lower half. We moved slow going from her ass back up to her back then down her legs. I bent her knee moving her lower leg inward at an angle and her pussy became exposed to him for the first time. The light from the candles made her already wet pussy glisten. As we rubbed her inner thighs we would graze her pussy lips…..she was SOOO wet. When we flipped her we began working on her breasts. I was getting so turned on watching another man touch my woman. “S” moved nice and slow over her nipples then down her arm as I did the same. Her nipples were becoming hard as we lightly massaged each breast. We went lower toward her landing strip pubic hair but being careful not to go too far in order to drive her wild. When we moved to her legs, we started with her feet then moved up. We bent both of her legs inward at an angle so the bottom of her feet were touching each other…..this opened her pussy wide. We again worked her inner thighs but this time moving our hands right over her pussy lips……this drove me wild seeing him touch her. I then went down on her and she was drenched in her juices, NOT just wet….drenched, and it tasted so good. At that point I looked up at “s” and offered my wife’s pussy to him. He began to eat her out and I saw her mouth open and could tell she was in pure ecstasy. He wrapped his lips around her clit and sunk his fingers deep inside her…..she let out an amazing moan. I got out the clit vibrator and started to tease her clit while “S” bent two of his fingers to massage her g-spot. I handed the vibrator to “S” while I started to massage her breasts and nipples. “S” kept up the fingering mixed with licking until she had the most intense orgasm, I have ever seen her have! She about rolled off the table it was so intense! She motioned for him to stop but continued to twitch for over a minute. After we let her calm down, I moved her to the edge of the table spreading her legs apart and started to fuck her. She was so soaking wet I slid right in. I looked over and she had “S” cock in her hand slowly playing with it…..I had to think of baseball in order not to cum right there LOL!! “S” then moved to the head of the table to hold her head as it was falling off the table…..what a gentleman! She grabbed his arms and had another orgasm while I came deep in her soaking pussy. “S” smiled at me and quietly left as my wife and I held each other. It was perfect. She told me she LOVED the experience and wants to do it again ?. We went home and fucked two more times. The next day “S” texted me to check on my wife to make sure she was doing good. I can’t tell you enough how much I appreciate “S” in helping us take the next step……thanks man!!……D&J
  7. The wife and I have been here a few times and always had a great time. This last time was for the Valentines party and was it packed!! We got there around 10pm so the only tables left were in the smoking section back by the pool table . Anyway, they had a mix of music but played WAY too much hip hop for my taste . Around midnight we moved to the "play" area that has several beds (attendant changes sheets), 3 beds with large viewing windows, a sex chair, a clit vibrating saddle, a HUGE multi-couple beanbag chair and a sex swing, The swing was free so I immediately took the wife to it and undressed her. Now, we are new to swinging so she just allows me to fuck her in front of others on the back beds so her fucking in the middle of the room on the swing was a BIG step. Anyway, I put her in the swing and she leaned all the way back where her head was pointing to the floor. I brought a lipstick vibrator and started to play with her clit while eating her out now and then and she was going crazy . People started to stand around us and I LOVE showing off her body. She has D size cups (man made) and a nice landing strip that I was showing everyone that wanted to see. A couple walked to the front of her and the woman leaned down telling her she was sexy and touching my wife's breast.....she didn't object and I could tell she was cumming. WOW, what a HUGE step. I then took her to one of the beds and fucked her till she came again along with me. WHAT A NIGHT!! We got home about 2am and hit the hay but the next day she said she got up around 6am so horny and used the vibrator again......I think she's starting to loosen up.....what you all think? Also, I highly recommend this place so if you're in SA you may want to stop by and have some fun
  8. Good point Dan.....Colombian brought up Catholic (now non-practicing). Thanks for the insight!
  9. So true Gold. I'm always trying to get her to talk about her fantasies but she seems embarrassed. I don't know if she thinks I'll look down on her or what but I'm just taking it slow. We go every 3 months or so and before we go I take her to a piano bar or nice dinner to make sure she has a little fun and relax. Thanks for your advice!
  10. ok, I got my wife to try a swing club with the agreement that no swapping just allow others to watch. We've been to two in Austin and the last one in San Antonio. We went to Players in San Antonio and did a little dancing, drinking and then went to the back. There we found an open bed and started kissing. She undid her dress (closes like a bath robe). I laid her on the bed and pulled off her panties and started playing with her clit; she was so wet. I sat off to the side, spread her legs and started to eat her out. I brought a lipstick size vibrator and started to tease her clit. I sat far enough over to the side so people walking by could see her wet pussy and awesome breasts. I would move from eating her out to using the vibrator. So many couples stopped to check it out and I got so hard I think I could hammer a nail with it! I moved her so we were laying on the bed sideways and my cock slid right in her. I lifted her right leg and lowered her left so people could see my cock going in and out of her. A LOT of people were watching us and I had to start thinking of baseball in order not to cum LOL!! I took the vibrator and placed it on her clit as I slowly moved in and out. I asked her if she was doing ok (nerves and everything).....she said "I just want you to fuck me" and this about sent me over the edge. I kept up with the vibrator while fucking her and she had a massive orgasm. That was all I could take and came hard. When we left I asked if she enjoyed it and she said "I just want to make you happy baby". I really want her to enjoy it as well, NOT just me...pleasing her turns me on. Before we met no other lover ever did the things we do (just vanilla sex). Did anyone else start like this? Do you think she will get more comfortable with the swing thing? She says she does it for me but when we go she is so wet each time...I'm just wondering if anyone else started this way? I would appreciate any advice. Thanks!!
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