GeoMol18

Thanks everyone for your input!! I created a profile on SLS and see where it goes. And yes, done with CL at this point. I do like the idea of meeting the guy before hand. It would make me feel more comfortable knowing the guy isn't a creeper or up to something bad. While I plan on being there when things happen, making sure everyone is comfortable (including me) is something I'm all about.

Hi! We're new here and hoping to learn some things as we move forward in our journey. We've been taking about sharing her for some time. At first, as is normal, she wasn't sure about it. Then, as time went by, we decided for now, we'd allow her to do "touch only" encounters. This would be someone getting her off via hands, and her doing the same for him. The idea behind this was to start slow as she gets very excited thinking about all of this. Last week, after I told her about some CL ads I found where guys would be willing to do oral on her for the sake of doing it. Friday, she asked me to "make it happen" so, I started responding to a couple of ads...set up a time and place for them to meet. Two things happened. 1. He didn't look like he did in the picture he sent and 2. After she got to the location, he decided to change the venue. We were texting the entire time and she didn't feel right about the last second change of location and she bailed out it. Which was fine with me. From what I'm gathering from some of the boards here, CL isn't exactly the best place to find someone for this effort. After some long talks over the weekend, she's comfortable with this arrangement without me there if we find the right guy, but, if I was there, she's comfortable with having sex with someone. So...we need to do a better job of planning and vetting possible playmates. What I'm hoping for is some advice on where to look for playmates. Specific apps or sites for people that might be up for this sort of thing. There is a lot out there and it's overwhelming. And I want the next experience to be a positive one. Any advice people might have would be very welcome! Thank you!