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  1. So here's the story.... My partner and I have just started. She slept with one woman at a swingers club who was very inexperienced and it ended up a disaster. Then she pulled some guy in a sauna. He was even worse. Couldn't get an erection then when he did he orgasmed in 2 seconds. Fine it happens. So she said that's OK. Just lick me. He refused saying its disgusting. She felt used and very disappointed. I said it was just unlucky but she says actually in her experience sex is shit 95 percent of the time. The guy is either clueless or just out to get himself off with no consideration for her. This surprised me. As a guy I when I fuck women I want them to cum. As many times as possible. Or if they don't at least have a good time trying. Its an ego macho thing which I presume most men have? My partner has had quite a few partners so its not a inhibition thing and she orgasms at least twice every time we fuck. Shes now in this phase of maybe its me or maybe its not worth it etc So I ask: Men: 1) what are you trying to get out of swinging. In all honesty? 2) Are men who are shit at sex not embarrassed? Women: 1) what are your experiences. Is a lot of your experiences shit or at least not very good? What are you after. Just the excitement of it? 2)How do you find a good fuck. Do you target couples, middle age, younger, geeky? Or is it just impossible? Is it better in a club because everyone's watching so you try harder? Are swingers generally better than non swingers because of experience? 3) is it possible she just attracts the wrong guys? We really don't know where to go from here. We will keep trying I guess but its not fun being used or having shit sex. Thank you!
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