Hey Everyone,
Mr. K here. I have another question. Please bear with us as we are new to this and figure it's just best to ask. We have been getting IM's from single men. I'm really not impressed. I'm not saying they are creeps or anything and I'm certainly not judging... I'm just wondering why? (Besides the obvious) Doesn't that defeat the purpose? I understand that there are couples that enjoy inviting a single man into a threesome, however I would think that is the exception and not the norm. How often do these guys actually get involved?
So far this seems to be our only hangup. We are open to swapping eventually but I'm not to keen on some random guy having sex with my wife. A single guy we know? It's possible. A couple we know? More than likely. A guy just hanging around? Not in a million years. If these guys are into the lifestyle wouldn't they have a friend they could bring along? How do you know they aren't creeps just trying to get laid?
I guess what I am trying to say is that we are open to play but everyone needs to have some skin in the game. (Pun intended)You can't come to our party without bringing a side.
I also see a lot of complaints on club reviews regarding this. What are your thoughts?