Hi all we are wondering if its normal to be in a playful relationship with another couple and have the male of the other couple try to do things we are uncomfortable with? We are happy to play, but when it comes to him wanting to just watch our wives and not wanting me to be involved makes my wife and i a bit uneasy on the whole situation,my wife is a cuddly girl and still has body hang ups is fine to get into it in a foursome but having to be one on one f/f and being watched is not what she ideally want...we had a chat about the situation and he got quite pissed off about us not wanting to be seperated into pairs....we are going to pull the pin on the play nights now but are we being unreallistic just wanting a foursome or are we selfish...any help welcome before we end the fun...?