PassionFruit

Ps he's already used you sound jealous card and that's not the issue here.

I think you might be right about finding another couple, I guess I was testing the water going there a second time hoping for a different outcome to last time. The guy does get involved and play with other women too as he was chatting about it.

Op, I feel exactly the same, swinging seems to have overtaken. I long for the sex session where he wants to have sex because he fancies me and not because he's getting his rocks off about swinging. A sad situation and difficult to rectify. Maybe some sex starvation?

I think the fact that it happened for a second time was the kick in the teeth to be honest. I wouldn't knowingly swap with a couple if the female didn't fancy him, He normally sits back and watches girl on girl. I think a hotel party is a good idea. He could play with Megan Fox and I wouldn't get jealous, it's all about involving each other and having respect.

We've played twice with a couple now or should I rephrase that,my partner has. He fancies the F something rotten and her fella gets off on watching her with other guys but her fella doesn't fancy me and never make a move on me. This happened for the second time last night, she wanted to get it on with my fella and then I join in later, I joined them an hour later after basically chatting with her fella and tried to interact with my fella and her when I went in the room with them but got nowhere. I'm left feeling horrible inside now. I don't get how my fella didn't involve me after knowing how much it upset me last time. He's got a couldn't give a shit attitude about the whole thing today. Anyone had a similar situation, any advice welcomed.