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Alexandsandra Thanking you for responding to this thread! Can you tell me why you think it may not be a good idea? I'd love to know your thoughts!

luvin eye full We are pretty playful if you ask me. We've roleplayed quite a few times and we are pretty open about everything. And as far as I am concerned I think I'm prepared. If it was a one off fantasy I think I'd have stopped thinking about it. But I haven't. I'm not sure about my wife though and I won't push her towards it until she is completely ready!

bbarnsworth I'd like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for explaining everything in such a detailed manner. It goes to show how much you care about our problem in hand and me and my wife are really thankful to you. In fact she found your reply amusing and enlightening to read! Now since the formalities are out of the way, it's safe to say that I agree with everything you've just mentioned. I will however provide more background to why the guilt exists. I was in a hurry when I made this profile, and used US as our country of origin. We are from Pakistan and I will be changing it to that soon once I find a way to do so haha. We were both brought up in a society where sex outside of marriage is considered a taboo and engaged in copulation after marriage. Love and sex have always been a single entity for the both of us, and it is until recently that we both have started to understand that they can be enjoyed seperately; Me more than my wife to say the least. So the guilt has to come from the fact that since we were brought up in a monogamous society and enjoying the thought of sharing my beautiful wife with another man isn't considered "mainstream" here. People hardly bring up their sex lives, and the ones who do aren't exactly mature enough to consider it serious talk. However cheating does exist in our society which is decided to open up and talk about the unseen posibilities, and we have firmly agreed that if any of us feels the need to "cheat" it is better than we will consider the alternate lifestyle. However, I will add that we both did say, oh I'd never do such a thing. As for your own personal experience, I must say that is exactly what I feel about it all. Just reading all that has made me excited and I I'm sitting here thinking about the exact same scenarios with my wife. However, I will have to wait and see how it all fares. We are still young, and there a lot of years ahead of us. But I really want to make the best of the sex years of our lives which is why I keep getting impatient! I'd love to private message you my wife's number if your wife has no issues talking over such a long distance!

Dan63 Again I want to apologize for the incovenience and thank you for providing enlightenment on the issue. I did not know MMF and MFM were seperate Acronyms and what I really meant was to discuss MFM! If it wasn't for you I'd have never known.

SW_PA_Couple Thank you for your detailed reply. I'd like to apologize for my inexperience since I meddled with the jargon here. What I meant was an MFM threesome instead of MMF. However, I do agree with the obsession part. The moment I've felt she's ignoring the threesome talk, I've found it hard to pick up an erection. I've never had any issues with an erection before and I am fairly young, so it is indeed alarming. Any advice on that?

Hello everyone, This is my first ever thread on this site, and I am posting this on behalf of my wife. We've been a couple for 4 years now, and it is until recently that I've really started to develop a threesome fantasy. I don't really think I thought about it ever, and I was disgusted with the thought of it until recently. I had a wet dream with my wife and another guy and it's safe to say that I haven't stopped thinking about it since then. Initially, I felt extremely guilty because we had never discussed it before and had vowed to be monogamous for the rest of the eternity. We are a lovey dovey couple you see, and we both have only ever thought about being intimate with each other. So yes this was uncharted territory for me, and I have been disgusted with myself ever since. I'd often think about her with another man while having sex or masturbating, and I've really found it enhances my orgasms which subsides by immense guilt. It was until a two weeks ago that I finally decided to share this MMF fantasy of mine with my wife and it's safe to say she was pretty positive about it all. She laughed it off, and said I was being ridiculous but she was fine with me and with all the fantasizing. In the following days, she inquired about it daily and it was until a week after she did say, "I'll consider it for you". And when I asked really? She said, "Sure, we'll see. I can't promise though." A day passes and I feel she starts to ignore what she said, and goes back to I only love you and I love being intimate with you. Perhaps she is still indecisive, and I'm not the one to push her towards something she doesn't want to but her agreement in the prior week has really set off this thought from just being a fantasy to actually wanting to do it in real. Part of me feels she does fantasize about it secretly, but perhaps she's worried I might get jealous? I did ask her if my fantasy was normal to her and she added that I should be possessive instead. Despite gradual assurances that yes I do feel slightly possessive, but it's in a good way and that I enjoy the thought of having an MMF because I always put my her first and I think she will enjoy it once she does have it, she won't say it she wants it. She says she doesn't understand the thought of it all, and what's enjoyable about an MMF and she has a few concerns about it. An amateur like me hasn't been able to fully tend to her queries and I felt like it was time to take this to experts, i.e you guys. I'll be posting all of the queries down below one by one: 1. Is having an MMF threesome normal? How taboo is it? 2. What is the enjoyment behind it all? Why does my husband enjoy the thought of it even though he is straight? 3. Is it more enjoyable than normal sex? Does two males really enhance it for the female in person? 4. Does it enhance your sexual life afterwards? 5. Will it be awkward? Do other women fantasize about it too? 6. Kindly share your experiences of an MMF threesome. Female feedback will be greatly appreciated, however males may feel free to share theirs as well. I know all these questions have probably been asked on this forum a gazillion times, but my wife wanted answers specific to our case in person. Thank you in advance!