cokey30

thanks for all the replies, I can't lie like I'm not nervous about letting some other guy have his way with my wife, but at the same time I'm excited and aroused at the thought of it. I think I'll just start off slow like letting the other guy give her oral and go from there.

Hi everyone and thanks in advance for any advice given. A little background on my wife and I before I get into it. We've been together since I was 16 and her 15 we are both 33 now. We have never broken up. Both of us has stepped outside of the relationship when we were younger (growing pains), but we continued to stay together after each of these occurrences. Fast forward to now, we went to Vegas last summer for our anniversary. We usually go to strip clubs out there because I enjoy seeing my wife interacting with other women lap dances and etc. This time I wanted to switch it up by giving her some male entertainment. She usually is more into women strippers and doesn't really care for males but I wanted to see how she'd respond. So we went to a club and she didn't have on any underwear btw and she was wearing a skirt. After getting a dance from a guy that she found attractive she revealed that she liked it. I watched as he was laying on top of her grinding her with her legs wide open and no underwear on, and I had feelings of excitement while feeling indifferent at the same time. The next night we went to a swingers club. Upon entering it was very relaxed with no pressure to do anything. So went down stairs and found a couple that was playing around. The wife of the other couple started blowing her husband which turned my wife on and she took my cock out and give me the best blowjob she ever has.We asked the couple did they want to go into a private room and they replied yes. After going in we watched the other couple start to go at it so we followed suit. The wife eventually comes over snd starts to finger fuck my wife followed by her husband it was very intense and exciting as this was our first time doing this, but thats about as far as it went because my wife wasn't attracted to her husband, and we hadn't had a ground rules conversation. The next night we brought a women to the hotel room from the club and she gave my wife oral sex which drove me crazy to see. Now after this my wife was stressing to me how she wasn't gay and etc idk why she needed to stress that to me , but anyway I think I want to move forward with letting her try a guy and a woman for me, but she dosent want to try another guy but I want to be fair. So my question is how do you deal with any jealousy that may arise i.e. if he turns out to be better bigger then me or whatever the case may be, what kinda signs do I need to look for to know if I'm ready for this and if I find that I'm not how do I get prepared ?