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  1. Thanks for the clarification. I wasn't betting on the pheromones either. The 'feeling sexier' makes more sense. I agree that I should focus on my wife and I've been working toward creating an atmosphere that is more conducive to her being aroused such as making her life less stressful. I've been going to therapy for my dysthymia and my wife has attended a few sessions with me so my therapist knows her beyond just hearing my side of the story. There isn't much else my wife can do or is willing to do on her side. The conclusion my therapist is that she is who she is and either I learn to accept it or move on. But I digress.
  2. I've thought about it too. The other woman I'm with isn't exactly new to me anymore. And when I'm with the other woman, I don't feel the excitement like I did when I first gotten together. I think I've gotten comfortable with both women. Also, I rather be comfortable than something new and exciting. The problem with something new is that I have to worry about more things - staying hard, how I'm performing. While I still to that somewhat with somebody I've been with, if something doesn't go as planned (e.g. I get soft or cum too quickly), I don't feel so self conscious.
  3. Thanks for the feedback. I think it's probably due to the woman's sexual desire. When I'm with my wife, she does try to get into it but it's still not as arousing. Don't know if the smiley face meant the comment was a joke. In my social psychology class, there was discussion about a study that strippers make more money on tips when the are ovulating. However looking online for more details, it seems the study had a small sample size. I have a very close co-worker friend to whom there is mutual sexual desire that hasn't been acted on because she doesn't want to betray her husband (long story). When I'm with her, there are times that I find myself more aroused than usual. It is usually because she's horny herself. Coincidence or causation? Not really sure.
  4. I find it difficult to cum through sexual intercourse with my wife before she gets raw and have me pull out. However with another woman, I can only last a minute or two before I reach the point of orgasm and have to slow down. I'm bareback with both women. I've been wondering why that is the case. My wife is thin while the other woman is a bit curvy. The other woman's pussy also feels a lot better than my wife. Maybe the curviness makes her pussy feel better. Novelty? I've been married to my wife for over 25 years and have only been having sex with the other woman for a couple of years. I don't feel the rush of NRE with the other woman when I'm with her. There isn't an emotional attachment. It's just sex. My wife has a low sex drive due to anti-depressants My wife has sex with me because I'm horny and she's doing it out of duty while the other woman is always horny. I'm thinking that this other woman exudes sex pheromones which my body picks up subconsciously. What are your thoughts and observations? Thanks in advance.
  5. We usually play at our house so I always let the "guest" finish first. Also, after seeing him pull out and cum on her, it doesn't take too long for me to finish.
  6. We played strip poker. After somebody lost all their clothes, then they have to perform acts. This eases everybody into the mood and provides a bit of suspense. When we played with my wife's old college roommate and her boyfriend, we were pleasantly surprised when we found her college roommate didn't wear any underwear.
  7. For me, it's a bit different. I have a kinky side where I like to dress in stockings and heels. Only when I'm dressed up, I have a desire to suck a cock. However my wife doesn't want me to go down on her regular lover. I guess she's the jealous type. The closest I got was during one MFM with my wife's regular lover, when they asked me to dress up, so I obliged. Since he never had a MFF, this was the closest he could get. I was on top of her in the missionary posistion and he was standing next to the bed. Her head was turned and she was sucking his cock. I was kissing her check and his cock was just inches from my face. I figured that if she let it slip from her mouth, I would immediately take it in. Unfortunately, she is very "talented" and I never got that opportunity.
  8. I guess I haven't been "vanilla" in such a long time that I forgot it's the same. It's reminds me of the movie "Indecent Proposal" where the guy gets upset because his wife is sleeping with Robert Redford. I remember an episode of "Mad About You" were Paul and Jamie are in Vegas and a guy offers Paul money to sleep with Jamie and they both said sure as if it's no big deal. My wife and I would fall in the "Mad About You" category while vanilla folks are more along the line of the movie.
  9. Thanks for the reply. I was just wondering if swinging implied something more than swapping. If they are used interchangeably (pun intended ), then that's fine with me.
  10. Hi, In college, my wife and I had a couple of foursomes - with my roommate and his girlfriend, with my wife's roommate and her boyfriend. Recently my wife was talking to another couple and the topic of swinging came up. My wife said that we did some swinging in college. My question is do people think there is a distinction between swinging and swapping? Does one give a different impression than the other? Not necessarily one is better than the other but just different. To me there is a difference - swapping tends to be between couples who have had a previous association while swinging produces the image of keys in a fishbowl. Thoughts?
  11. I wouldn't be bothered by the MM thing because I'm a bit bi-curious myself. What my biggest concern is accidental injuries. My wife and I have known to "bump" into each other with the lights on!
  12. For us, safe sex means pulling the car to the side of the road first.
  13. For those who experienced twins, were they identical? And if so, did they act the same way in bed?
  14. My wife had a regular lover until he got engaged and she put a stop to it. We did some MFMs and I really enjoyed watching "the show" when he was pumping in and out of her. She like having hands all over her and me licking her clit when he was inside her. It took some work to get into position
  15. The downside with our hot tub is the cost to keep it warm. Our hot tub is adjacent to our pool so we really can keep it hot unless we wanted the rest of our pool hot as well. So spontaneity (sp?) is out for us. We have to plan about an hour ahead. Oh, but we've had fun when we did plan ahead. Once, my wife's regular lover stopped by for a *visit*. We warmed up the hot tub and got in au natureal. Her hands were wandering around to get things going. At one point she was sitting on his lap. I reached over to play with her pussy, only to find that it was already filled with his cock. Very nice surprise.
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