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Sweetcheeks85

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About Sweetcheeks85

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 01/14/1985

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Edmonton
  • Swinging Experience
    1 year
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. We are very blunt, we ask early on that way we don't waste each other's time.
  2. Mfmfmf. Our first experience we jumped right in. We had went up stairs to the play area it was packed lucky enough a private booth opened up we, we started to play together and another couple asked to join us we said ok not to long after another couple asked again we said ok. It was a pretty fun night.
  3. We use swingtowns because it's really our only option where we live.
  4. I re read the whole thing after reading alexandsandra's reply I couldn't see how they got you only had one experience. Did you make it clear to the other couple private meet ups were not allowed from the start? From what you wrote you had both decided that all messages were to be seen by both of you, am I right? If so him deleting them and not telling you right away before you were able to see is a big red flag I feel you I agree that you need to get some outside help. When you're swinging there should be trust, something even as little not saying it's not a big to you, as this can destroy a relationship. I have recently been burned by almost the same thing, as of right now we are on a break if we ever go back and if we do there will a big difference on how we go about it.
  5. If it were me I would want to know, I would be hurt and upset but not at the person telling.
  6. You were not in the wrong, it's all Common sense not you life partner use a protection and always ask first !!
  7. Update: Thank you guys, I learned some information yesterday and will definitely never be talking to them again. I now feel better about myself. Turns out he's not really in to the lifestyle anymore but gives her passes as long as he can watch. and his wife was the one sending me messages pretending to be him according to him he never sent one nor was he aware there was even chat set up. He thought we were doing all the talking on a couple finder website or in person. She told him thAt I was like him and just there to watch. My husband received an invite to meet up with her yesterday we have made sure that everyone knows from the start. We play only as a couple.
  8. Ok, so the husband loves to go to the club in the city. We have a great time playing with others. We have both taken one for the team, not a problem no jealousy. We decided he could set up an account on our local swingtowns. He can chat, send pics, whatever. Not really a big deal as long as I can read them. We ended up making plans with another couple. Hung out a few times. We set up private and group chats with each other. She is super flirty and so is my husband, not a problem, but now I'm feeling insecure about myself. The husband is flirty on chat with me but every time we meet face to face he avoids eye contact, doesn't really talk to me, and he will kiss me only after either his wife or my husband tell him to and it's a peck. After we leave or they leave he sends me a text saying how much sexual tension there was and how hot I made him feel. The first couple times I thought he was shy or something but now I feel like I'm unattractive and undesirable. My husband and his wife have amazing chemistry. I feel like eventually it will lead to jealousy. What are your thoughts?
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