touchgr8

It is easy for someone that is exceptionally fit to unknowingly intimidate someone else into thinking they would be the ones rejected or, that maybe the fit person engaging with them was just them "settling". That is completely the other person's issues, not your partner being undesirable. I once visited a client and a female employee there was also a body builder (competitive) and had a build that many men would envy, I couldn't keep my eyes off of her, she was stunningly beautiful...most fit and healthy people are. I had never been around a female body builder but, just like her male counterparts, her fitness and form just highlighted her beauty and made her all the more feminine and desirable. Granted, I'm male but, beauty is beauty and attraction is attraction and neither know gender combination. I think your partner should be very proud of her fitness and maybe consider being a little less shy and be first to approach. It may very well be that the other (or others) are the ones being shy and would appreciate her making them feel wanted by her.