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Norfolkcouple

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About Norfolkcouple

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 05/24/1986

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    Norfolk Virginia
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  1. My husband and I have been swinging for 8 years, married for 13. In the past I, the Mrs. have been allowed to venture out on my own and have sex with couples/females/single males. This summer my husband went on a deployment for 7 months and we agreed on giving the open relationship thing a go for the first time while he was gone. Everything went well for the first few months. Then I started becoming very uncomfortable with how close his relationship was becoming with the woman he was dating. For instance we said we would tell one another everything when it happened and he began to not tell me until days later. He also informed me that one time in particular he didn't use a condom (which is a big no no with us). After that incident I asked him to cool things down with her, I told him I didn't mind if they still had sex but she was no longer allowed to spend the night and I didn't want them hanging out as much as they had been. Come to find out a few days later she spends the night again. At this point I am very upset and not willing to do the separate play anymore. He tells me(him saying it, not me suggesting it) that he won't talk to her anymore and he is very very very sorry. (this happened back in October) He got home from deployment back in January and I found out from looking in his phone that he is still talking to her. Come to find out they were hanging out and talking everyday after that incident. I asked him about it and he swears they are just friends and nothing happened between them sexually after he told him she spent the night again. He has been keeping their relationship a secret for months! I'm angry, hurt and not believing what he says. Do I just accept it and try to move on?
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