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Sophia&David last won the day on February 13 2017

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About Sophia&David

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  • Birthday 06/16/1977

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  1. PADOC, You're my hero, thank you ;-)
  2. I'll agree with that. Not many years ago, the thought of sex with a woman was an absolute turn-off to me. And then, I began to fantasize about it, and enjoy dirty talk about it. And now? We are actively talking to a couple where the Lady is bi and wants contact with me with the potential to swap, and I am excited about the possibilities. But three years ago, no way, would never happen. I would say she may feel ashamed, embarrassed, perhaps her desires go against everything she has ever known about herself. That is a huge bridge to cross, and I doubt it can happen quickly, if ever. Be supportive, encourage her to accept herself and her desires, be sure she knows you are her safe place. That may be what she needs to open up to new possibilities.
  3. I think that near-death experiences typically cause one of two reactions within a person 1. Crippling fear and anxiety or 2. A sense of abandon, a need to fulfil the dreams and desires that person was always too afraid to explore. I can certainly see how this would lead one to polyamory and/or swinging!
  4. That sounds horrifying! I'd have freaked out, too. Good luck in your future endeavors.... this is an interesting world, to be sure.
  5. Thanks, everyone! It has definitely sparked an interest in pursuing this further. I could almost solely live off of the excitement of the future!
  6. Hi, Sophia here! Well my husband and I went out to Trapeze for the first time last night! I must say the atmosphere was wonderful, the music was great, the food was deliscious and the staff were all just lovely! I felt comfortable most of the night, which surprised me as I am very shy and private, particularly when it domes to sex. We chatted with a few couples and were interested in one that we had met while being given a tour once we arrived. Unfortunately, by the time we moved to the dance floor, the wife was so visibly drunk that I wasn't interested in chatting to decide if there was mutual interest in soft swapping or sex next to each other. I figured either drama would ensue, or my husband would get stuck trying to keep her from falling into walls- something her own husband seemed to be spending a lot of time doing. So, we went to the back and I decided on sex, just he and I, in a room where another couple were already engaged with each other. At some point, another couple joined us on the platform, all of us with our own dates, and there was a small group that had amassed to watch. It shocked me how turned on I was! We had a great time together, then I put on the pretty bra and panties I brought, and we returned to the front to dance, enjoy breakfast, and then return to our hotel. We hope to return next month, and hopefully meet more people, and perhaps a couple to get to know and play with. I am very happy with how comfortable we both felt being there and discussing the other couples and what we wanted together.
  7. Thanks for your insight! I've heard the food they serve is phenomenal, but I know my nerves, and I think I won't be able to eat, sadly. Haha! Maybe eventually.....
  8. Thank you! I'm excited to see all of the 'dark deeds', and hopefully break out of my shyness and fear for some good fun with the Mr.
  9. I'll help revive this post! We met in a gay club in the late 90's, haha! Some nights were more straight than others, but Sunday was 80's night, and we both LOVE 80's music! I went every Sunday with friends, danced in the cage, generally had a grand, if somewhat sketchy, time He was there with his very openly gay roommate and their myriad of lively friends. He approached me several times over the course of a month, and then I finally agreed to take a chance on my hot redhead with a lovely butt. We laughed throughout our entire first date, sparks flew, and here we are 18 years later! So yes, you CAN meet the love of your life in a bar, just maybe not a hetero one
  10. Thank you for your advice! It makes sense that with everyone else in towels-at least to start- it's more normal. Also, I had no idea there was a hot tub and pool. Well-chlorinated? Haha! We will be there early to buy the membership and take the tour, and hopefully knock the edge off of my nerves with a bit of wine. We are planning to get a feel for the environment, meet some people, and likely only engage in play with each other, but I'm open to the possibility of light play with others, depending upon our comfort level.
  11. Hello! Sophia here :-) My husband and I are planning to visit Trapeze in Atlanta this weekend, which so exciting and nerve-wracking for me! It will be our introduction into the swinger lifestyle. Here's my question: the club has a policy that everyone must disrobe in a locker room and enter the back play area wearing only a towel, is this pretty standard practice? I feel uncomfortable being essentially naked before any real contact, even if only with my husband but in a shared space. Plus, the very act of undressing/being undressed during the heat of the moment adds so much excitement to my experience. Am I just being silly? How have you all gotten accustomed to this different order of things, as it were?
  12. Fair enough, LOL! Every place has a seedy area, Hell, every family has a seedy area
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